"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why is the moderator on a locking spree?

Alphathree

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People started two perfectly good threads about (a) posture and (b) skinny guys and they both got locked.

Maybe this stuff has been said before, sure, but this is a forum, not an archive. It's reasonable to do a search first, but it's also nice to have fresh content.

"no need to start a new thread"? What, is there some universal law of conservation of threads that says for every thread that is created, one must be locked?

Are you having space issues on the server? If so, do x messages in a new thread take more space than x messages in an existing thread?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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idiot_boyfriend

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$10 say that this post gets locked or moved. :D
 

Paradox

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Don't forget the thread moving spree.

Moved to AE
 

Climax

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Originally posted by Alphathree
Maybe this stuff has been said before, sure, but this is a forum, not an archive. It's reasonable to do a search first, but it's also nice to have fresh content.
He does bring up a valid point there... even though a question may have been answered and discussed in the past, with regards to certain things, there is always space for more/new opinions about things... Most of the threads that are locked are locked with good reason, but there ARE times when I don’t really agree with it, but hey, no1 is perfect, give the mods a break, they are just trying to do their job to the best of their ability. If you are really insistent on a certain thread being unlocked, then by all means, PM a mod, and I'm sure he will do what he can to accommodate you, if your request is valid.


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Pook
4) If a subject has been posted in a thread, post in the existing thread, do NOT make a new thread.

9) If you have a question or a post idea, read the bible or use the SEARCH feature first.
Originally posted by Alphathree
People started two perfectly good threads about (a) posture and (b) skinny guys and they both got locked.
A. I'm assuming you mean this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=730731
Let's quickly review what was advised: When you sit down at a table don't hunch over and keep your elbows off the table. Look relaxed!

No offense to the OP of that thread, but this is common sense stuff. You've read about it a million times before in the DJB. You've browsed through tip after tip mentioning it. Why create a whole new thread saying something so blatantly obvious that even your mother taught it to you when you were 6 years old ("Johnny, get your elbows off the table!") :rolleyes:

B. You must be referring to http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=730729#post730729
Sorry, but if this thread qualifies as a "perfectly good" topic, then the forum is in a state of decline. I mean, honestly - "Do girls like skinny guys?"

What's next - "Do girls like guys with moustaches?"... better yet, "Do girls like guys who wear Abercrombie & Fitch?", or even "Do girls like guys with spiky hair?". Yeah. Top quality topic. Once again, no offense to the original poster but generalized questions of this sort - questions that should be rhetorical in nature - are better left unasked.
 

NYC Dude

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The question I have is why do the moderators choose to lock the topic when they can just leave it alone? Giving advice, however obvious and repeated it may be, should not be rejected but rather encouraged. Maybe the times are changing and locking threads has a real reason now, but I remember when I first started visiting this forum and two things went hand in hand:

1) Threads were only locked if they were blatantly offensive.
2) EVERYONE except the writers of aforementioned offensive posts loved the moderators, and there were no threads questioning the actions of moderators.
 
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