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Why is the Midwest the best place to pickup girls

Dhoulmagus

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Black, white, blue, green...any race will do well here. My theory is that the place sucks to live in, so they are eager to get out. Also, the competition is easier. The south is different because people are proud of their southern heritage and dating Johnny from down the street is southern bonus. Also, southerners think every other place in the world sucks.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Midwest has Chicago which is a world class city. Detroit is a dump but to be honest has a decent downtown and is underrated. St Louis is ok, not a well planned city in my opinion
 

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So This is Purely Theory

Dhoulmagus said:
Black, white, blue, green...any race will do well here. My theory is that the place sucks to live in, so they are eager to get out. Also, the competition is easier. The south is different because people are proud of their southern heritage and dating Johnny from down the street is southern bonus. Also, southerners think every other place in the world sucks.
So you haven't actually hollered at chicks in the Midwest and you have no empirical proof to prove whether or not your hypothesis is correct.
 

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If the place sucks to live in the girls are less bytchy. I find Midwestern and southern girls very easy to talk to. Also they don't have prior hang ups about Indians.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
So you haven't actually hollered at chicks in the Midwest and you have no empirical proof to prove whether or not your hypothesis is correct.
Idk, I have family up there and they are successful with women and careers. Also read about it in the pickup forums.
 

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Because like most minorities you have a preference for white girls. The midwest has a lot of white girls and unlike other areas the ones there do not have a lot of racial hangups. This does not apply to states like Oklahoma, Kansas, and Missouri though.
 

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Here we go again with the race card. Sing a new song already.
 

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I live in the Midwest. Friendly people, no gangs, mudslides, earthquakes, crazy taxes, traffic jams, wildfires, first Google Fiber in the country, several professional sports teams and reasonable cost of living.

Yes, it really sucks.
 

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Induced Drag said:
I live in the Midwest. Friendly people, no gangs, mudslides, earthquakes, crazy taxes, traffic jams, wildfires, first Google Fiber in the country, several professional sports teams and reasonable cost of living.

Yes, it really sucks.
I know man, look I don't know why OP said Midwest sucks it's not that bad. People think California is AWESOME but it ridiculous taxes, high cost of living, gangs, earthquakes, etc. Weather alone doesn't make a state desirable to live in.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't get game forums like this sometimes. They preach this nonsense about self improvement and making yourself better with women but the second you get guys like skinnyguy talking about wanting white girls, most of the regulars are whining about everyone putting white girls on the pedestal rather than giving advice to those guys on how to get those girls. It seems like a guy would be better off going out there and failing rather than seeking advice on here because most men don't want to see each other succeed here.

El Payaso said:
Here we go again with the race card. Sing a new song already.
Do you ***** about everything? I swear you cry more than an average teenage girl. STFU and get a life loser.
 

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HowardHughesDicaprio said:
I don't get game forums like this sometimes. They preach this nonsense about self improvement and making yourself better with women but the second you get guys like skinnyguy talking about wanting white girls, most of the regulars are whining about everyone putting white girls on the pedestal rather than giving advice to those guys on how to get those girls. It seems like a guy would be better off going out there and failing rather than seeking advice on here because most men don't want to see each other succeed here.



Do you ***** about everything? I swear you cry more than an average teenage girl. STFU and get a life loser.

no one cares that you want to date white women. it's your obsessive nature in referring to women as white women, it's pedastuling white women.

i haven't dated a black woman in what.. damn near 10 years. it will actually be 10 years next month the last time i dated a black woman. but you hardly ever see me refer to women in my posts as "white women" though that's what my wife is and that's what i primarily dated.

you're too ignorant to see that your own ignorance is what is stopping you from getting a "white woman". no woman wants to be seen as a prize to be won, she's not a ring decoder you get at the bottom of the cereal box lol. it's no different than women who dated me "just because" i'm black. it's the worst of the worst. i don't want a woman to date me just because i'm black nor does a woman want to date her just because she's white and a good looking white woman worth a ****, even the ones who aren't worth a **** for that matter, have more options than to date someone who looks at them as a white piece of meat.


becuase your "problem" can be summed up / fixed in 3 sentences


"if you are a minority you're going to have a better chance of finding suitable dates in liberal minded metropolitan cities such as LA, NY, Washington or Chicago, not Atlanta, not Austin, not Dallas. There you're going to find more liberal minded women willing to date outside your race. Your beating your head against the wall trying to find suitable single women of different races that are going to be interested in seriously dating outside theirs. And even once you move, accept that life is not fair and some women just won't date you based on the color of your skin"


I'm from Arkansas and ****, even having money in the ban, being in shape, I had more white female 'friends' than i could count. loved hanging out with me. some were even attracted to me, but wouldn't take it there with me. i wonder why? move to San Diego? beating women off with a stick.
 

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The reason I am bringing it up is because unlike ambition player I have had success with white women but my problems have resolved more so based on the issues I have run into with people I know due to being with white women. IRL I have found that a lot of black and latina girls that knew me growing up were angry even to the point of hostility when I dated a white girl, it is because I was friends with some of them but none of them were okay with me dating a white girl. It was then that I realized race is unavoidable.

Contrary to popular belief, most middle eastern men like latinos do not struggle with white women in america because a lot of us have caucasian features and are even considered white on the census. There is nothing taboo about a white girl going for an arabian guy here in the USA and I have had black friends who were raised around white people get top tier white girls without issues.

My problem is that this forum at times has seemed to me like the exact opposite of supportive. I believe in helping out everyone out there so we can avoid an Eliot Rodger from ever happening but at times I have felt like this forum and its members do more to hold each other back than to help each other out. Like say you do have a minority that has a thing for attractive looking blondes (which so many of them I know do), why not tell them the truth?

I know that I would not game a girl from Japan or Korea the same way I would game a latina from the Bronx, on a similar note I know I would not game a latina from the Bronx the same way I would game a latina from Latin America. We just need to acknowledge that game exists and matters but different women from different kinds of cultures find different things attractive. We need to:

1. Accept that different cultures produce different kinds of women
2. Accept that all of us on here have different tastes
3. Help each other achieve and obtain our tastes

Taking girls off the pedestal is a great start but there needs to be more specific advice after that. We as a community need to come together and accept that different kinds of men have different tastes and help each other obtain the kind of women we desire whether it is a black guy wanting an east asian girl, an indian guy wanting a white sorority girl, or a white guy wanting a persian girl.

PS: Have you ever even been to Austin? I saw cute white girls there with black and even indian guys, there is no hangup about it. I would pick Austin over NYC and LA, wanna know why? Because the competition in those 2 cities for above average looking girls is very stiff.
 

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I agree about Austin. If you remember I picked up a very hot white girl there which has never happened to me. NY has fake gold digging btches.
 

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The thing is, there really aren't that many "avg" looking girls in LA compared to everywhere else. LA is where the hottest girl in your city comes to become famous. I'm so immune to women now that it's not even a big deal to me anymore. I've met at least, 50 girls that would be the hottest thing I've ever seen back home in little rock. Most working at starbucks and Burger King, etc.


I have family in Austin, right outside austin.
 

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LA chicks are so stuck up tho. Like after they get off the plane from ohio they turn into snooty cocaine sniffing prostitutes. Texas girls are all natural and don't care if you're a Hollywood producer. That's why I love the great state of Texas. I can just be a friendly guy in Austin and get numbers.
 
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