"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is Marijuana illegal?

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Those two drug studies are very typical; I've seen several. None of them really prove anything important. Yes, kids who go schizo later in life like to smoke pot. They use it to self-medicate. People who get brain tumors probably have headaches first and probably take aspirin before they know they have a tumor. Despite what is probably a very high correlation between aspirin and brain tumors, the aspirin has absolutely nothing to do with the cause of the tumor. It's the same for pot and schizophrenia, correlation exists, but that does nothing to prove causation, despite the typical sensationalist headline in whatever news article is discussing the study.

And brain "abnormalities" don't mean anything. If it has no impact on your life or health, who cares? Chronic smokers of chronic have different chemicals in their heads, different brain parts might be different sizes, so what? If you are not in pain, have no illness, and live just as long as anyone else, then none of this matters the slightest bit. It's just more government scare-tactics, because they can't find anything legitimately dangerous about pot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I went through some bad depression and I can honestly say that I don't believe I would still be alive if I didn't experiment with weed. It works better than any anti-depressants ever did. It really opened my eyes to how much a gift life is.

I smoke weed and then go driving all the time. I drive just fine. I drive a little too slow when I'm high but that's all I can say. Nothing dangerous in that.

I think the people who are against marijuana are uneducated and have never tried it before.
 

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I still dont understand who gave the rights to nations to decide what a singular citizen can use and what he cannot.
No problem if they tell us to avoid driving after drugs or alchol but why in hell its a problem if we smoke a little with our girls in our homes?
Everybody should have the right to do everything as long as that everything dont disturb others.
 

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I know a guy who was a hardcore meth user for ten years, most of them spent shooting up. As you can imagine, his life was pretty fvcked up. He had a kid that his own parents raised, because he was off doing meth all the time.

A few years ago, someone introduced him to really good pot, and he quit the meth in favor of the pot. Then his life completely turned around. He never did meth or coke again, he has a steady job for the first time in his life, and he now has his son back; they actually have a very good relationship. He smokes pot every day after work and probably all day on weekends.

The government's own anti-drug literature will state that there is no cure for meth addiction. Maybe they mean no legal cure.
 

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silkcru007 said:
US cant tax you on weed... everyone including me would be growing it.
Not exactly. If it becomes legalized people will want the good stuff. Like hydro. Growing weed can be an expensive process. You need self-timing lights, fans going on the plant, and proper nutrients. This can end up using a fair share of electricity. Plus with an influx of supply due to legalization you wouldn't exactly be making big bucks. People like convenience. Why would everyone go through the hassle of growing it when they can just get it at their local weed store for less than what weed is going now?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bud_2005 said:
Not exactly. If it becomes legalized people will want the good stuff. Like hydro. Growing weed can be an expensive process. You need self-timing lights, fans going on the plant, and proper nutrients. This can end up using a fair share of electricity. Plus with an influx of supply due to legalization you wouldn't exactly be making big bucks. People like convenience. Why would everyone go through the hassle of growing it when they can just get it at their local weed store for less than what weed is going now?
Less than it is now? It's hard to say with the possible taxes. Of course if taxes are too high people will just buy blackmarket and it will be almost impossible to stop.

Either way, most people still won't grow it. Just like people don't grow tobacco or make their own wine/beer or even grow their own food.
 
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