Why is it that women pop up when you least expect them?

[warrior1]

Does anyone felt the same way? For instance, you're having a very bad morning and you go out to work or whatever and you say have a bad hair day or am really down. You usually see an attractive women but they see you but you say to yourself "i look like crap today" or "oh great, i don't feel good today just trying to get this day over" and don't bother talking.

However, when you feel and look good on that day and am anticipating, you see ABSOLUTELY no attractive woman around when you want to have some fun. Besides this example using strangers, i find it weird that this happens with some people I had crushes on too. I want to see them some days but they're never there and when i least expect them around, I usually see them and am usually in some bad mood because I am having a bad day.

Anyone feel like this?

 

[fbplayer06]

Try to put yourself in a good mood at the beginning of every day. It shouldn't matter if you want/expect to see your crush or a random girl. It could be coincidental that you notice girls on your "bad" days and see no girls on your "good" days, or it could be your *mindset* and what you expect to see during the day... I may not be explaining this too well, but it's similar to Pook's "think and you shall become" philosophy. Keep ya head up!

 

[thegenerousjew]

Cest la vie.

But you should try cold approaching them on days you feel like crap and start telling them how the sight of them made your day a whole lot better. Don't do it in a needy way but in a fun light hearted manner. Good girls are friendly and will respond!

 

[Serialized3]

You know, this reminds me of a story that I read somewhere.

It was about a dude who unexpectedly went out to a party with his buddies right after he was done working out. All his buddies were wearing dressy clothes, while he was stuck in sweaty workout clothes, and was looking all scraggly. According to the dude, he was actually getting more female attention due to the fact that he stood out from all the other guys at the party.

The moral of the story is that you should always be in the mindset that you're the prize and that you can pull women no matter how 'prepared' you are. Try to game these chicks even if you aren't feeling %100. You'll be suprised at the results.

 

[warrior1]

i heard this is MURPHYS LAW.

 

[IM0001]

Ha this is exactly what got me into my current prediciment lol. Saw he while I was having a bad day and kinda left a mark. It will get better but it shure is anoying.

(Finals, work, no sleep, was hard to make a happy day out of it.)

 

[In2theGame]

Does anyone felt the same way? For instance, you're having a very bad morning and you go out to work or whatever and you say have a bad hair day or am really down. You usually see an attractive women but they see you but you say to yourself "i look like crap today" or "oh great, i don't feel good today just trying to get this day over" and don't bother talking.

However, when you feel and look good on that day and am anticipating, you see ABSOLUTELY no attractive woman around when you want to have some fun. Besides this example using strangers, i find it weird that this happens with some people I had crushes on too. I want to see them some days but they're never there and when i least expect them around, I usually see them and am usually in some bad mood because I am having a bad day.

Anyone feel like this?

LOL, your 100% right about this. You dont know how many times it has happened to me. Bad day, bad hair day, Bad clothes day...etc. Then hot girls seem to appear from every corner. lol

 

[warrior1]

yes i know. When i look decent or am anticipating, theres no one in sight!

 

[chancer]

Fix your hair, cloths, and whatever else all the time so that you don't have the excuse, "i look like crap". Don't think about having a bad day. Open up a conversation anyway. You may never see her again.

Forget about looking decent. Look and feel good and they'll magically appear

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... For instance, you're having a very bad morning and you go out to work or whatever and you say have a bad hair day or am really down. You usually see an attractive women but they see you but you say to yourself "i look like crap today" or "oh great, i don't feel good today just trying to get this day over" and don't bother talking....

Never, ever go out without being presentable or prepared to meet women. This isn't to say that you have to force yourself to sarge every time you are out. Going out at less than your best and not feeling able to approach a woman that you would like to have been able to sarge if you were presentable doesn't help your situation. Whenever you go out, expect to meet people; possibly someone you'd like to know better.

 

[Soprano]

F*CK YES IT HAPPENED TO ME TODAY DUDE I JUST MADE A THREAD TALKING ABOUT IT!! god dammit. it sucks, i feel your pain, but it sucks even more not approaching so say something anyways.

all i did was go straight to subway and back home and I saw the hottest girl ive seen all week and she was ALONE standing right beside me in line

 

[backbreaker]

i heard this is MURPHYS LAW.

no murphys law is whatever bad that can happen and will have the worst possible outcome and happen at the worst possible time or something along thoose lines


because when you aren't expecting them, that state of mind is optimal for being a catch to a woman... an attractive guy who isn't needy, who doesn't show alot of attention, who is preoccupied with his own life, independant, etc

 

[tmpgstx]

Well said BB, that's what it is all about. It really boils down to not needing them and being a man among boys.

You'll have girls flocking to you or at least trying to get you to notice them.

Many of these girls will have boyfriends or even husbands, and that is how powerful the 'take it or leave it' mindset is.

For girls it is about passion. What ignites passion in them? Answer this question with your actions and you got subserviance.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I could care less about what my hair looks like. I have good baby-like hair and use my hand to comb it. All I need to be is a good driver and she'll notice. If I can race, then all I need is my face.

 

[slitherjef]

Had this happen yesterday while I was at work. Don't even know if the chick was hot, Did not even really look at her but I was in a crap mood and she was reaching for something and said, Sorry... I said a few words and got her to giggle. Was not even really trying.

Damn.... I managed to pull some sarcastic remarks out of thin air that managed to work and I was in too much of a bad mood to keep going.

 

[warrior1]

why dont you quit stalking these women and it wont happen.

how do you stalk these women if its the first time you see them?

 

[Micheal Moon]

Great idea for a thread, this happens to me all the time. I don't know how to explain it. Thing is I don't care at the time, then after when I'm in a good mood I regret it big time.

There's an ancient saying in Zen that says, "IF you seek it, you cannot find it".

Its weird but it seems true.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Yeah and it annoys me like hell...also I hate when a girl ignores the living **** outta you then comes try to flirt out of the blue the day you're at your most pissed.

 

[KarmaSutra]

When you're prepping yourself for a night out hunting you're singularly focused. This causes you blindness to everything else going on around you.
When you're not giving a sh!t about what you look like or that you've been up all morning nursing a hangover you will recognize the glances and everything else the blinders keep you from seeing.

 

[dontwannabeafc]

Does anyone felt the same way? For instance, you're having a very bad morning and you go out to work or whatever and you say have a bad hair day or am really down. You usually see an attractive women but they see you but you say to yourself "i look like crap today" or "oh great, i don't feel good today just trying to get this day over" and don't bother talking.

However, when you feel and look good on that day and am anticipating, you see ABSOLUTELY no attractive woman around when you want to have some fun. Besides this example using strangers, i find it weird that this happens with some people I had crushes on too. I want to see them some days but they're never there and when i least expect them around, I usually see them and am usually in some bad mood because I am having a bad day.

Anyone feel like this?

ohh heck ya bro, up until friday I had big time oneitis for some girl that ljbf'd me, and I just never really felt like anything good was happening to me, that day in the afternoon i made up my mind that i wasnt gonna go out that night because i just wasnt in the mood. Well at about 8pm my brother convinces me to go to this kickback with his friends, I ended up going just because of my bro and out of nowhere at this kickback i started getting some big time attention from some pretty cute chick, that oneitis had me feeling like i was never gonna find anyone else, but friday made realize there definetely is more fish in the sea.