"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why is it that when you like someone you keep glancing at them?

Kaynen

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I mean is it just a innate thing we're born with. Like when you are attracted to someone/have a crush, you always feel the need to look at them.

For example this girl which im sure likes me, i always catch her looking at me and shes so obvious it at too. Its like she wants me to know.

I find myself doing this too, just repeatedly looking at someone who i have a crush on. Its like you can't stop, you just feel the need to look at them.

My question is do we do this coz we are waiting for a signal back from them or is it just that we are so attracted to them, that we feel the need to look at them and see what they doing? OR is they something more to it. Im just curious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Q-Pid

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Visual feed for barely subcontious sexual desire.

You want to honk honk her.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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... or you keep looking at her so she is thinking "what a weirdo, I better keep an eye on him to make sure he doesnt get close!" and thus keeps looking back at you! :D
 

diplomatic_lies

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Sometimes I glance at people because they're so ugly it's just fascinating looking at their mutation.
 

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Ummm SOME ppl could look at them and save a photographic memory for later in the night....


...while they're by themselves

(of course they would be doing this unconsciously)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alphathree

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Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
... or you keep looking at her so she is thinking "what a weirdo, I better keep an eye on him to make sure he doesnt get close!" and thus keeps looking back at you! :D
This is called a really bad frame, heh.
 

.illadelph

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it's called a crush. when you're constantly staring at a girl, u usually don't realize it, but believe me, other girls around you sure do.

girls know when guys like other girls. it's a 6th sense of theirs, i dunno how they do it, but girls know when a guy likes another girl.

but the girl you like, usually never catches on. how weird.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Sazuki
I think you need to approach that girl and start chatting with her :)
I agree, the glancing will probably continue until this happens. :rolleyes:
 

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you feel the need to look at them because you are making a connection with them. once you speak to them, you can either have them make the same connection, or you can stop your connection *if you dont like them*
 

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I am a sucker for eye contact I love making eye contact with woman. It is such a powerful technique, and a huge ego booster if they hold eye contact and look down or smile. I stare way too much though...

Sometimes I feel like they wanna look but won't cuz im checkin them out in class
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by .illadelph
it's called a crush. when you're constantly staring at a girl, u usually don't realize it, but believe me, other girls around you sure do.

girls know when guys like other girls. it's a 6th sense of theirs, i dunno how they do it, but girls know when a guy likes another girl.

but the girl you like, usually never catches on. how weird.
Perhaps they prefer not to catch on. Well in some cases anyway
 
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