"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why is it that when you like someone you keep glancing at them?

Kaynen

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I mean is it just a innate thing we're born with. Like when you are attracted to someone/have a crush, you always feel the need to look at them.

For example this girl which im sure likes me, i always catch her looking at me and shes so obvious it at too. Its like she wants me to know.

I find myself doing this too, just repeatedly looking at someone who i have a crush on. Its like you can't stop, you just feel the need to look at them.

My question is do we do this coz we are waiting for a signal back from them or is it just that we are so attracted to them, that we feel the need to look at them and see what they doing? OR is they something more to it. Im just curious.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Q-Pid

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Visual feed for barely subcontious sexual desire.

You want to honk honk her.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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... or you keep looking at her so she is thinking "what a weirdo, I better keep an eye on him to make sure he doesnt get close!" and thus keeps looking back at you! :D
 

diplomatic_lies

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Sometimes I glance at people because they're so ugly it's just fascinating looking at their mutation.
 

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Ummm SOME ppl could look at them and save a photographic memory for later in the night....


...while they're by themselves

(of course they would be doing this unconsciously)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alphathree

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Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
... or you keep looking at her so she is thinking "what a weirdo, I better keep an eye on him to make sure he doesnt get close!" and thus keeps looking back at you! :D
This is called a really bad frame, heh.
 

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it's called a crush. when you're constantly staring at a girl, u usually don't realize it, but believe me, other girls around you sure do.

girls know when guys like other girls. it's a 6th sense of theirs, i dunno how they do it, but girls know when a guy likes another girl.

but the girl you like, usually never catches on. how weird.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Sazuki
I think you need to approach that girl and start chatting with her :)
I agree, the glancing will probably continue until this happens. :rolleyes:
 

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you feel the need to look at them because you are making a connection with them. once you speak to them, you can either have them make the same connection, or you can stop your connection *if you dont like them*
 

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I am a sucker for eye contact I love making eye contact with woman. It is such a powerful technique, and a huge ego booster if they hold eye contact and look down or smile. I stare way too much though...

Sometimes I feel like they wanna look but won't cuz im checkin them out in class
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by .illadelph
it's called a crush. when you're constantly staring at a girl, u usually don't realize it, but believe me, other girls around you sure do.

girls know when guys like other girls. it's a 6th sense of theirs, i dunno how they do it, but girls know when a guy likes another girl.

but the girl you like, usually never catches on. how weird.
Perhaps they prefer not to catch on. Well in some cases anyway
 
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