Why is it that & is this a good thing?

[Bonafide]

Ok. Im naturally a busy person... I mean I play basketball all year long, I model, and Im also a music producer, and on top of all of this im only 16. Now the thing is I talk to alot of females and every female seems to notice this and sometime when im talking to a select few they feel as if they are wasting my time? Like even over myspace, girls will hit me up and we will start talking and then she will come out of nowhere like "sorry if im wasting your time"...and some other girls get mad like "I see that you forgot about me" or things like that... are these things good? I usually just ignore it.

 

[Jitterbug]

Good in a way, as they're basically disqualifying themselves i.e feel that they don't deserve your time.

 

[Bonafide]

Thanks for the reply.

 

[ready123]

yeah, your perceived value is higher, so they autoreject themselves. kinda like nerds who can't act normal around a hot girl because they think the girl is above them

what do you use for production btw? MPC / MV user here

 

[tsmith2334]

do either of you guys (or anyone else) have a link to your work?

 

[ready123]

my beats suck so... gimme a couple years

 

[Birdem]

That's a good thing, they know they aren't the number 1 thing in your life. The females also see that you are going somewhere in life. Now all you gotta do is take your pick who is worthy of your time(It's like the draft and you got the first pick, so take the best to your standards). Do not feel bad those girls will find someone that will spend all their time on them.. I would not sweat it one bit.

 

[KontrollerX]

Good as girls are interested in you.

Bad as the girls that are interested in you that give messages like this seem to have low self esteem and act lower than you.

Its not to say completely rule them out as relationship candidates but simply keep this in mind about them and see how things go if you ever get together with one of them.