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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why is it that girl won't tell you....?

FunkyMillion

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why is it that girls wont tell you that they're in a relationship when you ask them out on a date? they'll come up with some excuses and they'll even tell you to come around if you want to talk? then you find out that they are in a relationship.

what is this mentality? what's the purpose of not telling you that they are in a relationship?

-Funk
 

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KontrollerX

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The mentality results from a desire to avoid unpleasant confrontation.

In other words she fears and would like to avoid any potential dissapointment reaction from you so she evades saying something that would bring that about.
 

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KontrollerX said:
The mentality results from a desire to avoid unpleasant confrontation.

In other words she fears and would like to avoid any potential dissapointment reaction from you so she evades saying something that would bring that about.
I do believe this,however,my thought was that the reason she wouldn't tell you about a relationship she's in is because she's attraced to the guy. Usually what happens is she'll hide the fact she's already dating someone until you've already been on a date with her,or until after she's slept with you.
 
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