"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why is it that girl won't tell you....?

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why is it that girls wont tell you that they're in a relationship when you ask them out on a date? they'll come up with some excuses and they'll even tell you to come around if you want to talk? then you find out that they are in a relationship.

what is this mentality? what's the purpose of not telling you that they are in a relationship?

-Funk
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The mentality results from a desire to avoid unpleasant confrontation.

In other words she fears and would like to avoid any potential dissapointment reaction from you so she evades saying something that would bring that about.
 
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KontrollerX said:
The mentality results from a desire to avoid unpleasant confrontation.

In other words she fears and would like to avoid any potential dissapointment reaction from you so she evades saying something that would bring that about.
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I do believe this,however,my thought was that the reason she wouldn't tell you about a relationship she's in is because she's attraced to the guy. Usually what happens is she'll hide the fact she's already dating someone until you've already been on a date with her,or until after she's slept with you.
 
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