"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why is it that beautiful women have cr*p personality?

antidonjuan

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Before I came to this site I thought beautiful girls are angels and they are awesome and mysterious. But now when I communicate with these types of girls, alot of them don't cooperate and boring and they don't make my game easier - doesn't know how to flirt. Other beautiful ones look too high of themselves and treat their friends like a b*tch. Honestly, in my grade I can barely find an angelic face with a good personality.

Is it even possible to find a gorgeous looking female with a gorgeous personality? Right now I only see gorgeous looking females with no personality and great personality females with average looks.


THis sux
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I know some beautiful women with great personalities....until it's some guy in their face they don't want to talk to.

Do you have any women friends who are beautiful? Make some..this will let you see how they are as people and understand them a bit more.
 

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Welcome to reality. Yes, there are beautiful women out there who are non hors and have good personality. You just gotta search and screen out the bad ones.
 

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You answered your own question.

Before I came to this site I thought beautiful girls are angels and they are awesome and mysterious
AFC's like you kissed their ass, put them on a pedestal, and tried to win them over by supplicating their every need.

So, they learned their social value in society is "high" and then began to act accordingly. Some became full of themselves and are *****es, others are just may be decent people, but just don't want to waste time with you.

Something that I read once that actually made sense and changed my opinion about what I thought were b!tchy women, that everyone should read:

Imagine the life of a very attractive woman. She is hit constantly by AFCs. She may like the attention at times, but when doesn't want it, there's no getting away from it. A guy can take himself out of the dating game. A very good looking can't. She'll still be approached relentlessly.

Now at this point, it's like feeling trying to feel sorry for those movie stars who complain that people won't leave them alone or that photographers are always trying to take their pictures, etc. Boo hoo, right?

However, most guys decide these girls are b1tches when they quickly rebuff their advances. Well, not so fast. Do you really expect her to sit there and listen to people who have zero game and nothing interesting to say, all in the name of niceness? I don't blame them sometimes.


It's a lot like telemarketers. When they first started doing this years ago, I would try to politely listen and tell them "Thanks, but I am not interested." Now that they call 50 times a day, I have no problem telling them to F off or get lost. I don't have the time to be polite about it anymore.
 

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actually from my experience, beautiful girls are the easiest to talk to and the most open about their sexuality.

it's the 6-7's that are hard to talk to cause they think it's "wrong" to be a little perverted.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Crazy Asian said:
actually from my experience, beautiful girls are the easiest to talk to and the most open about their sexuality.

it's the 6-7's that are hard to talk to cause they think it's "wrong" to be a little perverted.
I wonder why they are more open to their sexuality? Oh yeah.. Cause they already slept with the baseball team! :crackup:

The hot girls are use to getting attention. The less pretty girls get less attention and don't know how to act.
 

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Why is it that beautiful women have cr*p personality?

For the most part, because they can. Many of them will also ration out sex at their discretion like a dog treat.

This is similar to another timeless question - why do fat girls give great bl0wjobs? The answer, or course, is because they have to.
 

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Many of them if they are outstandingly beautiful get by on their looks and since they are never required to form an interesting personality to hold people's attention they don't.

That answer your question?
 

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DJ theory just pisses me off, I see it's point but why do you guys have to make every thing so god dam 'nerdy' I can't understand half your jargon.
The irony of this comment is that your example was bad, I had to read it 3 times to understand what you meant.

im not that much of an ignoramus.
And you absolutely are an ignoramus if your suggestion is that hot girls behaving differently or in a b1tchier fashion is really just something manufacturer by the OP because he "can't have her".

The fact that you don't understand this DJ stuff, it's completely obvious- half the stuff written on the topic is based on exactly that supposition. That a girls behavior and attitude is based on how she has been treated because of her appearance-and the manner in which you should conduct yourself is within that concept, so that you don't act AFC like everyone else.

If you believe your little rant from your Intro to Psych taught you is true in this case, delete your account and pack in it. Because that's contrary to pretty everything you'll learn here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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beautiful women choose to have a bad personality in front of YOU because they are not interested

just like id try to sound like a total moron in front of a fat ugly girl if i wanted her to leave me alone

beautiful women display their true personality only in front of guys that they actually wanna deal with
 

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Two reasons:

1) She is not interested in you

2) She never needed to develop one because everything got handed to her since she was born.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Why is it that beautiful women have cr*p personality?

This is similar to another timeless question - why do fat girls give great bl0wjobs? The answer, or course, is because they have to.
I always thought the answer to that one was because they eat a lot more than regular people so their mouths are like super trained or something... :eek:
 

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antidonjuan said:
Before I came to this site I thought beautiful girls are angels and they are awesome and mysterious. But now when I communicate with these types of girls, alot of them don't cooperate and boring and they don't make my game easier - doesn't know how to flirt. Other beautiful ones look too high of themselves and treat their friends like a b*tch. Honestly, in my grade I can barely find an angelic face with a good personality.
LOL - I like it when you say hot girls "don't cooperate with you"

If you had Brad looks and Donald riches; and Rosie O was bugging you for a date over and over again, how nice would you react to her? I'm thinking you wouldn't even respond at all.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Many of them if they are outstandingly beautiful get by on their looks and since they are never required to form an interesting personality to hold people's attention they don't.

That answer your question?
110% correct.

However, if you are a beautiful woman, all other women hate you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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