"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why Is It So Hard?

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Dudes... I have a problem.

I go to a private school and all that stuff. I'm im good shape, I'm a real good Don Juan, been here since Nov 2001... but I have a problem.

As I came up in scoeity, growing, learning, changing, I got hella underclassmen wishin they were me or some sh*t like that, cuz they always be sayin **** and pissin me off.

I was smokin in front of McDonalds with this one cute girl, and like there was like 12 freshmen there, and all of em were fine ass with some dudes, and at a small school that means alot. They were like "Seabass you're the coolest smoker ever" and the girls were being dumbass b*tches and wouldnt give me change for a 10 bill. They say some mean ass sh*t lie "Seabass how does it feel being the only senior that doesn't drive?"

And I'm always like "well, its none of your f*ckin business" and walk off. BUT I DEAL WITH **** LIKE THAT EVERY ****ING DAY.

I come home, and this dumbass sophomore with a big ass head said:

dumbassbighead: omg I have a car now!!!!
dumbassbighead: and you dont!!!! hahahahahha!!!
HangTen3000: high five?
dumbassbighead:its great. its an alfa romeo! It's soooo nice!


I HATE THAT ****. HELP ME.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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Slap guys who disprespect you in the face. If I was smoking and some one got an attitude Id put the cigarette out on them, or at least flick it at them if I was far away.

Kids at school are ****head to me too... total jealousy. I just slap em, or throw something at them, and laugh. Because they wouldnt throw down with me if someone paid em. Just take control of your enviornment.
 

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I was talking with Matrix about something similar to this. I believe standing up for yourself and for others is one trait of being a man.

I can feel where you're coming from since I'm a freshman in college and I have no wheels. It's taken me awhile but I've about saved up enough money to get a vehicle.

Maybe you could get a paying job somewhere near your house and start working and save up?

As far as the "girls" go....the way I see it, if their strong enough to dish it out then their strong enough to take what's coming to their a$$es. I think we as guys forget that even the prettiest woman can be a cold hearted b*tch on the inside.....it's just make up and looks that's covering it up.


I'm interested on hearing how this works out....please a follow up.

Remember...you have to strive to arrive.


Tootles.....
 
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See you gotta learn to discipline your underclassmen or they get on your nerves with their childishness...didn't anyone ever tell you that? Plus disciplining them makes them a hell of a lot cooler people themselves because they try to act more mature and **** so you're doing them a favor.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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that situation will really piss me off and i'm out of high school and at any age that doesn't matter! i would really stand up to them and start putting my foot down but of course not raising my iron fist unless they gave me the first punch hehe. they only put you down because they're trying to find a way to compensate what they don't have. cars money and clothes doesn't make a man. just be glad they envy you. but you gotta put your foot down, if they you've done nothing wrong to them, then they have no respect for you and in turn-around they don't have respect for themselves at the first place.
 
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