Why is it so easy now ?

[Loki.7]

Just came out of a relationship, I was in it from my late 20's to late 30's. So best part of a decade.

In that time I've spent my alone time in the outdoor or training in dog bitework sports (so not been about average people ). Now I'm back in the city and around more people.

Regarding women it's nuts!!! I've never experienced anything like this ever. I'm constantly getting hit on when I'm out with my dog, women I already know are giving me signals, I had a look at online dating and it's exactly the same ! I was getting women falling for me on there and it just seems ridiculously easy (I deleted online dating because I'm not ready).


I'm average looking, slimish build at the moment, I have hair but I buzz it all off to No1, usually have a bit of stubble,. 37 years old, I dress alright although a bit rugged, always a neutral slim fit plain T , a nice pair of haix scout (outdoor) boots , usually neutral slim fit chinos and my German Shepherd at my side. Basically my style is functionality, I suppose I have a different style to everyone in the city

I'm thinking mabye because it's my age? I'm 37 right so maybe the women in their 20s to late 30s (my age range) that are still single must be feeling their biological clock ticking ?

Is it the virus and lockdown / isolation being women more aggressive when chasing a man ?

I've also seen a lot of chump guys around . So that might be it ? I see a LOT of guys that look like broken men. I'm just sensing weakness in people all around me.

I'm trying not to sound arrogant but I feel most grounded than the people i'm seeing. It's probably because I've spent so much time in the outdoors alone or around passionate people training dogs.


So are women just getting easier in general these days, are women in my age range just getting desperate or are men are just lost these days?

 

[user252009]

Probably cus you're tall and good looking?

 

[Loki.7]

Probably cus you're tall and good looking?

I'm 5 11 so average height

 

[user252009]

I'm 5 11 so average height

Depends where you live. In Germany, yeah, with 5 7 in Germany I'm small

 

[Velasco]

I'm constantly getting hit on when I'm out with my dog

Dog is easy excuse for girls to open you with. so the girls attracted to you have a reason to open you VS you out walking about doing your errands and these same girls don't know what to say to get you to stop and chat them up.

But your not fvcking these girls so there is no way for you to know if they are easy or not. Why I get annoyed with married guys comments who are not even in the game anymore

 

[Mike32ct]

Maybe your dog is a Chad terrier or Chadlite retriever.

Just kidding. Enjoy the Puzzy train but know that it runs out of track eventually.

 

[Loki.7]

Dog is easy excuse for girls to open you with. so the girls attracted to you have a reason to open you VS you out walking about doing your errands and these same girls don't know what to say to get you to stop and chat them up.

But your not fvcking these girls so there is no way for you to know if they are easy or not. Why I get annoyed with married guys comments who are not even in the game anymore

When I says easy I meant the initial interaction part. I mean once you get the initial interaction in your favour and she feels like she's chasing you it's not hard.

What's always worked for me previously is I connect at an emotional level , show each other vunrability, escalate sexualy ( in a joking way , pretending to flip it and make out it's her the one doing it), just before the point she's going give something to you (not ready to give herself totally yet) , I back off and flip the off switch. All in a jokingly way that she can obviously see right though.

I go back to non sexual stuff build emotional connection. It's game over at this point.

It's not something I plan it's just want I do. I like to build tension because I enjoy playing that game.

I liked a girl online dating I did this too her last week before I deleted my account. It's the only one I decided to play with.


Basically flirty stuff. Somehow the conversation got to her boobs. So I was joking why is she so desperate to show me her boobs as she keeps mentioning them. Lots of sexual stuff, nothing direct and in an around about way. She asks me if I'd like to see them. "No, you're a bad influence on me , I'm not kinda guy, what are you doing to to to me ? Blah blah"

I turn the off switch and I go back to emotional stuff. Then end the conversation for the day.

I talk to her the next night. Same sexual escalation, joking she's the one doing it (it's clearly me) but I don't put the brakes on this time.

I've built her up. I then switch it , I take control casually take direction slowly and she ends up doing herself with a dildo on webcam just to release the tention I've been building.

She's pretty much mine now. Literally begging to come and have sex with me. She wants to drive three hours and pay for a hotel for the weekend.

I don't know. It works in person, on the phone or text. It doesn't seem to matter. As soon they are open to me playing this game they are pretty much mine.

When I was single in my 20's I've literally had girls book flights to come to my house just to have sex with me.

It's not even a downside. It depends what you're like but the women tend to get obsessed when I do this. They get attached and so do I. I'm not
actually playing them , I want to feel this stuff too.

My best friend sleeps with a LOT of different women, he tells me about it all the time. His approach is completely different to mine. He comes in hard, super confident and doesn't mess about. Straight into we are going to bang.

I'm different. I enjoy toying with women. I love to make them incredibly frustrated to the point they are going to burst, ease off pressure, then crank it up again and let them blow.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It’s always been easy.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Right now is a curious time because there is this very real dread that our time free of restriction is limited due to Covid so I think there is a big factor at play there that not many men are recognizing.