"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Because there is a moist movement. Guys are turning into emotional girls while girls are turning into masculine dudes. You can attribute this to TV and the higher divorce rates! You would never see stuff like this happen in Africa or the Middle East. There the men have the women in check.

The men don't have their women in check. They have them enslaved.

And what are these African and Middle Eastern countries accomplishing, now that their "Alpha Males" are free to worry about more important things? Advancing technology and medicine? Global politics? Wealth? No, they're in the same place they were 1,000 years ago.

I'm not breaking your balls. It's over-simplifying the issue to say "This wouldn't happen in the Middle East or Africa." Neither would this conversation. It'd probably be illegal.
 

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It's always a great time to be Alpha. Perhaps now more than ever. Some are arguing that if women had less power,then lesser males could secure them??
 

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jocvtrhythgd said:
in reality, have tiny to no options. A person can dump a woman, but there will consistently be considered a thousand guys who will bend greater than backwards for her. And females know this.
Damn right they know this!
 

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As is usually the case, several reasons:

1.) Guys are NOT less emotional than women. PUA guys like to claim this but it's not true. Guys get angry and depressed just like girls. We may not show it as much but we do. It's controls us just as much too. Our egos run us as much as our wieners.

2.) Guys don't have as many friends as girls and are usually not as close to their families as girls. Guys have drinking buddies and friends to play basketball with. They don't have a network of FRIENDS like girls do. Granted, these guys can help you get over your ills for a couple hours but it's friends and family that help you get PAST your ills by being there.

3.) Girls have other options always.
 

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FairShake said:
As is usually the case, several reasons:

1.) Guys are NOT less emotional than women. PUA guys like to claim this but it's not true. Guys get angry and depressed just like girls. We may not show it as much but we do. It's controls us just as much too. Our egos run us as much as our wieners.

2.) Guys don't have as many friends as girls and are usually not as close to their families as girls. Guys have drinking buddies and friends to play basketball with. They don't have a network of FRIENDS like girls do. Granted, these guys can help you get over your ills for a couple hours but it's friends and family that help you get PAST your ills by being there.

3.) Girls have other options always.
I am thinking the same thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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