The LadyKiller
Senior Don Juan
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We have all experienced the difficulty of setting up plans with a HB, general flakiness and getting them to the bedroom. While it's not always the case, it's not really a surprise when it does come up.
What I'm talking about is when even the most minor things with a HB you know from everyday interactions become an ordeal:
-For example, one girl from my social circle said she was trying to expand her social media presence and would give us a follow if we added her. We know her, she's eye candy and "likes" a lot of our posts, so a follow from her is perfectly fine. She complied, well except for me where it took her over a month to accept my request on the sites(s). When she accepted, she made sure to mention, "I had to make sure." ABOUT WHAT? She has never answered that question.
-More recently, another girl we know was hosting a birthday gathering at a bar in town. She told my crew and I in person - particularly me, who she knew most - that we should stop by. When she learned I would be stopping by along with a couple friends, she had to "check" if it was ok I was coming (with who? It's her party and I get along with the people who ran the bar). We all stopped by, but left after a drink because I could feel her reluctance the moment I walked in.
There are more examples I could provide, but this sort of thing pops up more than it should. Like I said at the top of the post, I get the dating-related hangups, those happen. But everyday interactions that have no bearing on interest with girls I already know? That raises a flag. So do they odd, vague explanations they provide that they bring up without being prompted. I know I'm not a creep and don't do anything "weird," so why would everything become a procedure? There's an extra step I have in the most basic of interactions that no one else has to. There is no way these are all sh*t tests either - these are acts of hostility, not flirtation.
What I'm talking about is when even the most minor things with a HB you know from everyday interactions become an ordeal:
-For example, one girl from my social circle said she was trying to expand her social media presence and would give us a follow if we added her. We know her, she's eye candy and "likes" a lot of our posts, so a follow from her is perfectly fine. She complied, well except for me where it took her over a month to accept my request on the sites(s). When she accepted, she made sure to mention, "I had to make sure." ABOUT WHAT? She has never answered that question.
-More recently, another girl we know was hosting a birthday gathering at a bar in town. She told my crew and I in person - particularly me, who she knew most - that we should stop by. When she learned I would be stopping by along with a couple friends, she had to "check" if it was ok I was coming (with who? It's her party and I get along with the people who ran the bar). We all stopped by, but left after a drink because I could feel her reluctance the moment I walked in.
There are more examples I could provide, but this sort of thing pops up more than it should. Like I said at the top of the post, I get the dating-related hangups, those happen. But everyday interactions that have no bearing on interest with girls I already know? That raises a flag. So do they odd, vague explanations they provide that they bring up without being prompted. I know I'm not a creep and don't do anything "weird," so why would everything become a procedure? There's an extra step I have in the most basic of interactions that no one else has to. There is no way these are all sh*t tests either - these are acts of hostility, not flirtation.
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