"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why is chasing attention wh0res still a thing? You can't bend the odds

stevo

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Chasing attention hores is still a thing because they make betas think they could get some punani.

When she posts a picture showing half her tits, she gets flooded with "so gorgeous", "so sexy" and the rest. She responds "thank you" "love you xyz" comments like that make betas go into overdrive.

AWs are one of the nicest beeches that would lead you on till you fall off a cliff. The best you can do is to not get involved. Dont comment or like whatsoever. If she wants to fcuk she knows where to find you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil said:
And you keep your age secret? Until you can take me in a fight, I'm not old. Remember that. In the meantime I'll keep doing girls your (presumed) age, by any means necessary. And bring me those tacos already.

For men, youth and money are exactly interchangeable. The exchange rate is measured in US Dollars. And age 50 is the peak of a man's Power, on average.
Relax Neil, stress is bad for your heart ;)
For 80 old woman you are young but for 20 year old woman you are old.
You cried how these young chicks aren't impressed with you and your money.They are.They just aren't impressed with your age.You could be their dad.

And don't talk about money, you aren't rich, you are fine but nowhere close to -rich-, so your pocket monnies arent enough to impress these young slvts.
Anyway ... I feel sorry about you, Im bit younger than you but I wouldnt touch so young chicks because I respect myself, dealing with their childish shyt isnt for me anymore.Just admit you are sugar daddy them and that's fine.
 

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lol, i cant remember meeting you, must be the weed
Nah son, you ain't that guy. Nothing wrong with having fantasies though.

You'll see me chasing money, you'll see me chasing my next trip to another state, etc

To many woman are corrupted, all these POF/Tinder proof this case for example because you have woman online acting foul for attention
You might want to give village chicks a try then. Most of them are less "corrupted" and better people overall.

When she posts a picture showing half her tits, she gets flooded with "so gorgeous", "so sexy" and the rest. She responds "thank you" "love you xyz" comments like that make betas go into overdrive.
:crackup:
 

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BigNiel....make 3 times that a month. So what? Still doesn't fill an empty spot if you don't have your self worth based on something more than money. Just saying....
 

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JohnyTheArrow said:
Old farts in beta male rage pissed money means shyt.Do you want your money something for 20 old girl ? Move to Philipines.Nobody gives shyt about bills, bigneil must take Cialis or Viagra while 20 year old stud is pumped with testosterone and energy, beat that.You are wrinkled with ugly skin and most probably health problems, in 5 years he is 50 years old, no wonder he is depressed and pissed.

Now,you and bigneil dont derail the thread.My best advice is for such guys is move the fvck with your 'bills' where it matters - Philipines ? Peru ? Thailand ? And enjoy life instead beating on the bush.
Now WAIT a second. How many women have YOU fvcked? I've done over 100 easily, and a Lot of times they can't outlast me (all throughout my 30s) and they STILL cannot outlast me (almost 40). Their pvssies get "sore" after a while as I keep going and going and going and going (NO cialis or whatever) just good ole fashioned sex drive. I rag the sh!t outta all these b!tches and they're sweatin and wore out when I'm done and finally come. They're used to guys like YOU who don't last 5 mins IN them. Doggy is the Only position where I am susceptible to losing my load in a tight woman. All other positions, bjs etc etc I last for DAYz, and I'm almost 40 (NO drugs).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The problem is just that so many guys put sex on a pedestal. Ive done it myself and still have my weak moments, but you get to a point where you realize certain women are a dime a dozen.

I dont need to have sex with any particular girl. For me theres no "Ive got to sleep with her" kind of chick. The only time I ever chase a girl hard now, is if Im sure I want to commit to her. And those women are rare for me.

I wish, oh how I wish, that men finally started thinking more logically instead of always being overly influenced by hormones. Anything that works in a mans favor in the game, is eventually ruined by all the joe-blows who will stop at nothing to get vagina.

Be it day game, night life, email/chat rooms in the 90s, online dating in the 00s, social media sites, or Tinder a couple years ago...once the thirsty bros find it, the game is rigged again in women's favor.
 

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For whatever reason, my 21 year old dumped me. Sadly, I must now settle for a 22 year old who worships me. I'll live.
 

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Spinach said:
BigNiel....make 3 times that a month. So what? Still doesn't fill an empty spot if you don't have your self worth based on something more than money. Just saying....
Wait, you make $48,000 per MONTH? Explain details.
 

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I've been seeing so many threads lately about dating and fvcking attention wh0res. People are asking for advice that will somehow get the odds to work in their favor when dealing with these types of women. It's not worth it, and you can't bend the odds. If you're getting yourself worried, and have to go out of your way, then you already lost.
People are getting dumber.
 

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Hey johny the arrow - I think you were a bit disrespectful toward bigneil in your posts. This isn't a pissing match - money or age wise for that matter.

I like fcking bytches. I like nearly all of them. I treat AWs, BPDs and slutty wh0res like they need to be treated. Thump and dump. Apart from that I make sure NO female screws me out of my financial health.

AWs are great if you can play them right. I've had some of my best results with them. Short term :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For the immediate situation for a man, Poonani Maker nailed it. Stamina is a major key to taking your value to any given woman in the bedroom to the next level. As is technique. Most men do the wham bahm thank you ma'am for 5-10 minutes with no thought in the woman's pleasure. If she is just a plate you could care less about keeping for any kind of long term, then that is fine. But if you want to make her think about you and getting more from you when she is getting herself off in the shower then the 5 minute deal ain't gonna cut it. I'm not the most hung donkey in the barn but I have had countless women tell me that I rule in the sack because I make it good for them with technique and stamina. Whenever I have sex with a woman it's rare that I don't want to do it more than one time. I have also found, in general, that the first 1-3 times I sleep with any given woman is not the best for me. It's only after you get used to her and she gets used to you that the sex really gets good, in my opinion.

For the long term situation for all men, Jaylan hit it. We men have got to stop putting so much value in sex if we want to ever have a prayer of putting things back how they are supposed to be. In specific, putting things back to where women actually respect men and don't get their fishy little fingers in things they don't belong in. So long as men as a whole want/need sex so much and so long as women know that, they will use it to gain advantage in the world at the cost of disadvantage to men.. This really summarizes it and if it wasn't for this issue, we probably wouldn't be sitting here today in 2015 having this discussion, or any other for that matter.

Edit: Also, this is a good thread fellas, let's not let it become a p|$$ing match. I don't want to close it.
 

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Jaylan said:
Anything that works in a mans favor in the game, is eventually ruined by all the joe-blows who will stop at nothing to get vagina. [...] once the thirsty bros find it, the game is rigged again in women's favor.
Do you think so?

Even if there are more thirsty guys out there stacking the odds in womens favor... these men cant sustain relationships on thirst. When something better comes along, a man of actual value, what will the women do then?

The real question in my mind is if a women has been with a needy man for 5 years+, will she really risk walking away from that investment to be with a challenging aloof guy?
 
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