"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why is Beyoncé with Jay-Z?

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DJVladdy said:
"the epitome of being alpha"

Are you 12? If you are then I suggest you get out of this site because it will make you more ****ed up than you already are.
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Sorry I should have qualified that. I meant the epitome of alpha in music. I'm the true epitome of alpha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And I reiterate...Who gives a ****...Go read Disciples post about Becoming a King
 
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Who gives a fvck is a nice line, but apparently a lot of people do give a **** if you guys look at the emotional reaction this thread provoked...Ive never made a thread where I posted once and got more than 20 replies...

Anyway, Im not hating on Jay-Z, I bought his second album back in 98 (?) because I really digged "the city is mine". He makes great music, is a great entrepreneur, I dont envy him (some ppl mistook it for that), I rather sort of admire him...

just thought it was interesting how helpful "success" is and how much women dig "drive" and "ambition" and that whole thing...guys often argue "shes only with him because of his money", but I think in lots of cases women are with (rich) guys not only/mostly because theyre rich but because a guy being successful and making something out of his life like that is a big turn on
 
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He's got the "hottest girl in the game wearing his chain" because Jay-Z is the shyt. The guy is a genius. The guy doesn't even write down his lyrics, he does them freestyle in the recording booth. He just has "it".

I highly recommend the DVD of the "Classic Albums" special they did on his first album. Watch the master at work.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Probably because he's the richest guy she could land.

Its likely Clooney and nobody awesome wanted anything to do with her.

Pdiddy is a douche just like Jay Z but he's likely too pre-occupied with sucking some guy's c0ck on the down low at the moment to be bothered with taking Beyonce from Jay Z to keep up appearances.
 
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daygameguy said:
Maybe because he is well known, has cool friends, has girls around him, and knows how to talk to women.

I don't like celebs btw. They confuse me.
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How do they confuse you?
 
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Jayz is a sell out. Plus he was a Nas d***rider. Listen to Ether by Nas.

It has nothing to do with all those external things about Jay thought . They just both connect real well. Thats it.
 
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Look, Jay-Z is ugly. He's ugly as sh-t. He's the uggliest rapper to come out since Craig Mack. But when you get up to his level of status, it makes no difference what you look like. He could be the elephant man and still be pulling girls none of us could get at. Look at Seal, he's no pretty boy either, and look who he ended up with. We guys are lucky, looks take a backseat to money and status. An ugly woman, doesn't matter how much status she has, she could be royalty, no guy wants to bang an ugly woman.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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it's not about looks, all his other qualities surpass his looks
- jay-z is worth $300+ million
- he's a celebrity
- he's the best rapper alive
 
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who the f*** cares? I thought only women watch "extra" or "ET".
 
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azanon said:
who the f*** cares? I thought only women watch "extra" or "ET".
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What cave do you live in?
 
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Would Beyonce really go for a guy because of his money? I assumed she had more than enough.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would Beyonce really go for a guy because of his money? I assumed she had more than enough.
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She didn't when they first hooked up. Jay Z held her fathers hand when it came to the business aspect of hip hop and R&B. Got them through doors and arranged meetings for clothing lines and what not. It wasn't until after she met Mr Carter that she started to really bank.
 
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Who the **** cares?

here's a random thought

It's because she likes him. don't question why, just accept the fact
 
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"first of all who the f*ck cares? second, beyonce probably has more money than jay-z from her music + acting career so its not about the money."

Man , Jay-Z is worth over 400 Million Dollars
he raps, produces, owns a record company, a clothing line, a cologne line and a chain of sports bars, probably a butt load of real estate as well.

Jay-Z is definately Alpha, this sh.t wasnt given to him, he came from brooklyn growing up poor.

Trust me Jay-Z is definately a good role model
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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