"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is Beyoncé with Jay-Z?

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Lots of times I hear guys say "she's only with him because of his money" (I mean in general, not just beyoncé/Jay-Z)..Ive often thought that its probably as much the fact that "success" is appealing and that someone who's successful is seen as an "alpha male".

I'd say Jay-Z is okay looking (apparently quite a bit on the chubby side, but tall and probably has a face that girls like), but that can't really be it, neither can money, because beyoncé probbaly has enough of it...so it's got to be the "success", right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who the F*CK cares?
 

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first of all who the f*ck cares? second, beyonce probably has more money than jay-z from her music + acting career so its not about the money.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who da f*ck cares? They're celebrities dammit! Which is why I'm trying to be one. Big bucks, few whammies, and a MUCH EASIER time to get women.
 

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Who the **** cares?

By the way, JayZ looks like a turtle. But he's still JayZ.
Besides, you never know - he probably did the perfect over the shoulder and body rock so she could not resist.
 

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Jay-Z is the truth, and rappers in general seem to be the epitome of being alpha. More importantly, who the **** cares?
 

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"the epitome of being alpha"

Are you 12? If you are then I suggest you get out of this site because it will make you more ****ed up than you already are.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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who the **** cares?

he's nearly a billionaire, she's just a millionaire. One of the few black men that is clearly on the next level. She doesn't need any man, but that's a man she can respect because he's better than her. The bigger better deal.

BTW. Jay looks like Joe Camel.
 

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Jay got swag

GamePlan said:
Lots of times I hear guys say "she's only with him because of his money" (I mean in general, not just beyoncé/Jay-Z)..Ive often thought that its probably as much the fact that "success" is appealing and that someone who's successful is seen as an "alpha male".

I'd say Jay-Z is okay looking (apparently quite a bit on the chubby side, but tall and probably has a face that girls like), but that can't really be it, neither can money, because beyoncé probbaly has enough of it...so it's got to be the "success", right?

ROFL @ Jay-z being chubby, man if Hov is Chubby then I'm morbidly obese :rolleyes:

It's a factor of different things Game plan

Jay-Z right now more then any rapper has ultimate "Swagger" aka "Confidence" your favorite rappers imitate the **** out of him from Lil Wayne to T.I. to Lil Bow wow, you name it lot of rappers copy him, and his style or quote his lines a lot!!!

If you ever heard a Jay-z album (which I recommend start out with Hard knock life its more club friendly) You can tell this guy just doesn't exude confidence and arrogance but he fuucking personifies it.He is also very motivated so success does play a huge part, basically he came from sleeping on his friends couches to Buying Condo's that cost 60 g's a month

what women wouldn't want a man who is focused/swagger like that?

Swagger/focus>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>looks/money

well if you think about it focus can get you money if you focus on that

peace
 

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Who the **** cares?

These type of things happen all the time.
 

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The dude isn't really great looking, money isn't a factor (she's got more than enough of it) and she is as successful as he is. He's living proof that it's not all about looks, it's about attitude etc.

Beyonce could have had her pick of any number of rich businessmen, pop stars, actors etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe because he is well known, has cool friends, has girls around him, and knows how to talk to women.

I don't like celebs btw. They confuse me.
 

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GamePlan said:
I'd say Jay-Z is okay looking (apparently quite a bit on the chubby side, but tall and probably has a face that girls like), but that can't really be it, neither can money, because beyoncé probbaly has enough of it...so it's got to be the "success", right?
If it makes you feel better about yourself that the reason they are together is his "success" and not that he can make her feel what no other guy can and can give her awesome sex, then yes.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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