"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why is Beyoncé with Jay-Z?

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DJVladdy said:
"the epitome of being alpha"

Are you 12? If you are then I suggest you get out of this site because it will make you more ****ed up than you already are.
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Sorry I should have qualified that. I meant the epitome of alpha in music. I'm the true epitome of alpha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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And I reiterate...Who gives a ****...Go read Disciples post about Becoming a King
 
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Who gives a fvck is a nice line, but apparently a lot of people do give a **** if you guys look at the emotional reaction this thread provoked...Ive never made a thread where I posted once and got more than 20 replies...

Anyway, Im not hating on Jay-Z, I bought his second album back in 98 (?) because I really digged "the city is mine". He makes great music, is a great entrepreneur, I dont envy him (some ppl mistook it for that), I rather sort of admire him...

just thought it was interesting how helpful "success" is and how much women dig "drive" and "ambition" and that whole thing...guys often argue "shes only with him because of his money", but I think in lots of cases women are with (rich) guys not only/mostly because theyre rich but because a guy being successful and making something out of his life like that is a big turn on
 
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He's got the "hottest girl in the game wearing his chain" because Jay-Z is the shyt. The guy is a genius. The guy doesn't even write down his lyrics, he does them freestyle in the recording booth. He just has "it".

I highly recommend the DVD of the "Classic Albums" special they did on his first album. Watch the master at work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Probably because he's the richest guy she could land.

Its likely Clooney and nobody awesome wanted anything to do with her.

Pdiddy is a douche just like Jay Z but he's likely too pre-occupied with sucking some guy's c0ck on the down low at the moment to be bothered with taking Beyonce from Jay Z to keep up appearances.
 
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Maybe because he is well known, has cool friends, has girls around him, and knows how to talk to women.

I don't like celebs btw. They confuse me.
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How do they confuse you?
 
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Jayz is a sell out. Plus he was a Nas d***rider. Listen to Ether by Nas.

It has nothing to do with all those external things about Jay thought . They just both connect real well. Thats it.
 
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Look, Jay-Z is ugly. He's ugly as sh-t. He's the uggliest rapper to come out since Craig Mack. But when you get up to his level of status, it makes no difference what you look like. He could be the elephant man and still be pulling girls none of us could get at. Look at Seal, he's no pretty boy either, and look who he ended up with. We guys are lucky, looks take a backseat to money and status. An ugly woman, doesn't matter how much status she has, she could be royalty, no guy wants to bang an ugly woman.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it's not about looks, all his other qualities surpass his looks
- jay-z is worth $300+ million
- he's a celebrity
- he's the best rapper alive
 
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who the f*** cares? I thought only women watch "extra" or "ET".
 
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azanon said:
who the f*** cares? I thought only women watch "extra" or "ET".
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What cave do you live in?
 
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Would Beyonce really go for a guy because of his money? I assumed she had more than enough.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would Beyonce really go for a guy because of his money? I assumed she had more than enough.
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She didn't when they first hooked up. Jay Z held her fathers hand when it came to the business aspect of hip hop and R&B. Got them through doors and arranged meetings for clothing lines and what not. It wasn't until after she met Mr Carter that she started to really bank.
 
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Who the **** cares?

here's a random thought

It's because she likes him. don't question why, just accept the fact
 
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"first of all who the f*ck cares? second, beyonce probably has more money than jay-z from her music + acting career so its not about the money."

Man , Jay-Z is worth over 400 Million Dollars
he raps, produces, owns a record company, a clothing line, a cologne line and a chain of sports bars, probably a butt load of real estate as well.

Jay-Z is definately Alpha, this sh.t wasnt given to him, he came from brooklyn growing up poor.

Trust me Jay-Z is definately a good role model
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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