"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas

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Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas in case I meet a nice, feminine, traditional woman who I can see fit to have a family with. Here are the benefits I can see on doing that.

- The cultural atmosphere is just better and livelier

- The mortage house payments in America freakin sucks and can sometimes be riddiculous

- Less toxic food, good beaches, nice deserts and parks

- better relationships, less narcissistic and vain relationships as oppose to The West

- You live an adventurous lifestyle, a back and forth going back to the states and back abroad every 6-8 months for me. Going back to America just to visit for a vacation and sight seeing is actually pleasant occasion as oppose to working there year round.

- More affordable College education


These are just some of the things I can think of. Some places I have in mind of living this lifestyle are : The Philippines, Thailand, Morocco, Dubai, Turkey, Indonesia and Malaysia.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When you were in the United States, you were in the Rio Grande Valley in Texas.

In the Rio Grande Valley, you had access to Hispanic women who were more traditional than most USA women. There were plenty of recent immigrants in the RGV who had less exposure to toxic American culture.

Why couldn't you make it work in the RGV?
 

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Im thinking of planning on raising a family...
You ever considered a career in Near Eastern diplomacy? That's a vocation where thinking about planning on carrying out a task(Such as brokering some resolution to a war that's gone on for nearly a century now), rather than actually CARRYING OUT said mission, is venerated more fervently than Sex Red's skankiness is, throughout ghettos across America
 

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Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas in case I meet a nice, feminine, traditional woman who I can see fit to have a family with. Here are the benefits I can see on doing that.

- The cultural atmosphere is just better and livelier

- The mortage house payments in America freakin sucks and can sometimes be riddiculous

- Less toxic food, good beaches, nice deserts and parks

- better relationships, less narcissistic and vain relationships as oppose to The West

- You live an adventurous lifestyle, a back and forth going back to the states and back abroad every 6-8 months for me. Going back to America just to visit for a vacation and sight seeing is actually pleasant occasion as oppose to working there year round.

- More affordable College education


These are just some of the things I can think of. Some places I have in mind of living this lifestyle are : The Philippines, Thailand, Morocco, Dubai, Turkey, Indonesia and Malaysia.
The only place on that list that are good for getting women are The Philippines & Thailand.
 

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The only place on that list that are good for getting women are The Philippines & Thailand.
And your chances of acquiring a strain of syphilis heretofore unseen by Western physicians from both those locales is higher than Machine Gun Kelly, each time he plays Mesa, finds himself craving a kilo or 10 of meth
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gold diggers abound overseas just as much as in your home country. Buyer beware. The phrase ‘no money, no honey’ was invented for a reason.
 

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Gold diggers abound overseas just as much as in your home country. Buyer beware. The phrase ‘no money, no honey’ was invented for a reason.

In Basketball, especially in offense, there’s a term called going for the highest percentage shot lol, theres a lot of landmines in the state as far as I can see, especially if you want to raise a family. But then again, sometimes you don’t choose who you fall in love or hook up with, like serendipity it just naturally happens.
 

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When you were in the United States, you were in the Rio Grande Valley in Texas.

In the Rio Grande Valley, you had access to Hispanic women who were more traditional than most USA women. There were plenty of recent immigrants in the RGV who had less exposure to toxic American culture.

Why couldn't you make it work in the RGV?
I would love to marry a Latina, that’s one of my options, but the divorce laws in America makes me cringe.
 

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Hi Travels,
Dubai,Morocco? "Less toxic food, good beaches, nice deserts and parks"Oh Mate! You must have rocks in your head!...If you can handle the unhealthy climate and food in the Philippines,you are living in Gods Little Acre....Just so many beautiful Convent Girls,by all accounts loyal and faithful too,what more can you want?
 

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Surprised how men can simply say they will “go overseas” and raise a family.

Men don’t speak the language there , they don’t know the laws there. they don’t have a home there, they don’t have a job there, they don’t have relatives there, there don’t have friends there, but they are going to “raise a family” there like it’s eating chocolate cake.

I mean more power to the man if he can do it, but you guys make it sound so easy.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There are plus and minus about this.

Plus:
1. you have more control. the government will not interfere with your family
2. in some areas the physical cost is much less. Not just the cost of entry the the cost of monthly and yearly expenses.
3. Likely if your middle class or above in the west, you will be moveing up a class or two. Just keep in mind a few of the locals in the new place have way more than you.


We often talk about how the family or family values are better in the lower cost countries. In reality what I see is that the wealth divide is much larger and if you can be in the upper class, its nice to be living as upper class.

If you don't have money already, and need to work. Stay in the west. Better for you and the family. If you have money already then in the lower cost country you might have it much better.
 

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I would love to marry a Latina, that’s one of my options
Many years ago, you were well positioned for that. You are Hispanic yourself and it is easiest to date within your own race/ethnicity.

Unfortunately, you are 39 now. Hispanic women near your own age are single moms. It is unlikely that you could get an age gap relationship with a younger Hispanic woman in the USA, either in the Rio Grande Valley cities (McAllen, Brownsville, etc) or in one of Texas' bigger cities.

Why were you unable to find a good, traditional Hispanic female in the Rio Grande Valley and marry her when you were younger?

the divorce laws in America makes me cringe.
They aren't favorable to men. You could get a pre-nup and limit the downsides of USA divorce laws.
 

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Many years ago, you were well positioned for that. You are Hispanic yourself and it is easiest to date within your own race/ethnicity.

Unfortunately, you are 39 now. Hispanic women near your own age are single moms. It is unlikely that you could get an age gap relationship with a younger Hispanic woman in the USA, either in the Rio Grande Valley cities (McAllen, Brownsville, etc) or in one of Texas' bigger cities.

Why were you unable to find a good, traditional Hispanic female in the Rio Grande Valley and marry her when you were younger?



They aren't favorable to men. You could get a pre-nup and limit the downsides of USA divorce laws.


That’s cause I was a flaming anti social, social anxiety, early 20’s crising dude, thank God for The Military and traveling, it gave me a sense of Confidence and life experience but Im just being careful and cautious who I get involved with these days especially in Western nations.
 

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Wherever you go is where YOU'LL be

You see, YOU can't run away from YOU. You can run away from boohoo western woman bad, but it's a huge gamble whether those 3rd world hardened ghetto azz women that grew up without the concept of religion will be " better human beings.

All of this for a piece of flesh the size of a coin that has pissing and bleeding as main functions:D( p00sy). Nah bro.

Would you consider this if tomorrow you meet a woman that's down with you in the States? Because believe me, if you double down in self-improvement there will be at least one woman who will notice you.
 

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I would love to marry a Latina, that’s one of my options, but the divorce laws in America makes me cringe.
Why are you so hyper focused on starting a family? Why do you have baby fever?

You think it's easy to raise kids? And to satisfy a woman?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why are you so hyper focused on starting a family? Why do you have baby fever?

You think it's easy to raise kids? And to satisfy a woman?
For the simple fact that I want to Honor my faith, I want to honor God, leave a good legacy behind and contribute to society by having a God Conscious family that is well taken care of and set a good example for the Men out there, especially my family.
 

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Hi Travels,
Though you have a certain reticence about telling us you live in the Philippines just now,your Parents have a Hotel there,a support network...Ideal...In your age group there are dozens plus nice Christian Women on the Dating Sites that cater for Filipinas,their commonest request is for a "God fearing Man"...What's stopping you?
 

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For the simple fact that I want to Honor my faith, I want to honor God, leave a good legacy behind and contribute to society by having a God Conscious family that is well taken care of and set a good example for the Men out there, especially my family.
All kumbaja talk.

If you're such a catch you would've been caught already ( by a woman) .

Just keeping it 100. I rather have you being slightly suspicious towards women instead of constantly day dreaming/ having pipe dreams . Women are merciless bruh. Remember that

You can contribute to society and be a good person without the hassle of dealing with a woman that doesn't really like you. Choose for yourself and watch how women will follow-up.
 

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Hi Travels,
Though you have a certain reticence about telling us you live in the Philippines just now,your Parents have a Hotel there,a support network...Ideal...In your age group there are dozens plus nice Christian Women on the Dating Sites that cater for Filipinas,their commonest request is for a "God fearing Man"...What's stopping you?
Ironically the Philippines ( like most Asian countries)have no strong religious culture.

It mostly all talk that western men wanna hear. Deep down inside those women have zero merci
 

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Why are you so hyper focused on starting a family? Why do you have baby fever?

You think it's easy to raise kids? And to satisfy a woman?
There are men who get to their mid to late 30s as childless men and get a strong urge to pair bond. Pair bonding for blue pill ideology men usually looks like monogamous marriage and having children.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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