Why I'm feeling proud

[Rubirosa]

Since August I have had sex with 8 different women. All of them good looking. But this is not what makes me proud of myself. What makes me proud of myself is the one I didn't get.
I'm a decent looking guy w/ a great house, car, hobbies...etc......Through painful trial and error, I've managed to put together a system for myself that works pretty good. As a reformed chump, it's a kick to read these forums and discover that the theories on these boards being put to use were ones I arrived at only through difficult personal discovery.
Anyway, the one I didn't get : She was an online contact. Judging from her pics, she was exactly my type. We exchanged e-mails, #'s, and made phone contact.
We set up a meeting date for a Saturday. Thursday, I sent her a "What's up, Hi" kind of text. She texted back asking if I was free to meet on Sunday at a certain place known for it's brunch bistros and bars.
This didn't sit well w/ me, so I texted her something to the effect as :
"We had a date for Saturday night, so you either made new plans, or you forgot the plans we had, so no, I'm not meeting you on Sunday."
She texted back saying that she had to help some friends on Saturday and that she was sorry for the change in plans.
Okay, I'll give her another chance I thought as I wrote, "See you Sunday"
Sunday comes around and she texts me to meet her at a certain time. I text back saying "Sure, how about >>>>>>>> ?"(the name of a place a little closer to me)
She texts back "No thanks"
I then respond "First you broke a date w/ me, now you're not willing to compromise ? This isn't going to work out. Take care, bye."
Judging by my success rate lately, there's a good chance that if I would have indulged her initial B.S., I could be sticking my penis in her right now. Keep in mind that looks wise, she's my favorite type.
However, there's something that I liked more than her....myself.
The old me would have put up w/ her plan changes in the single pursuit of the oppty. to have sex w/ her.
I'm actually surprised how the good feeling I have about my actions is so much stronger than the "regret" of not hooking up with this one.
All comments welcome (Flame suit needed ?)

 

[Rubirosa]

P.S. I saw that she's still checking out my online profile

 

[joe henny]

Good job. I find the post on this forum sad and commical. A theory about women is ludicrous since so many women are so different. The bestt thing to do is go out there and do it. Not stay here and read these stupid ass post's that turn into debates, and d*ck measuring contests.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Just my modus operandi, I would have accepted the date for Sunday and then not shown up. I love to waste women's time who waste mine. I did it just last Tuesday with one I really really like JUST BECAUSE she never called me the week before AT THE TIME I had asked her to (after church at 11:30 AM on Sunday). So Tuesday, she drove all the way up (40 miles) to the restaurant we were supposed to meet at, I didn't answer (she doesn't know where I live). She was mad, but she concealed her anger over the phone later I could tell. Then just Saturday, I asked her to come up here again on Sunday and to call me after church at 11:45 AM. She never called yesterday, but to be fair, she said she'd call if she knew she was coming. Also, I interrupted her when she told Me to call Her early in the morning Sunday, to tell Her to call Me at 11:45 AM. That rude interruption probably pissed her off too, but she concealed being upset pretty well then too. She's good at acting, at saying she'll do one thing and not do it. I guess she needs more training. I've already fvcked her twice.

 

[slaog]

You did the right thing OP. I remember a few years ago the first time I ended something with a girl it felt great. Even when my girlfriend (who is a respectable and good mannered girl) kept me waiting around one day I headed back home without saying anything. She was pi**ed off about it but she makes a better effort to be on time lately. So even in relationships women can be trained.


That girl will now respect you more and wished she had made a better effort in meeting up with you.