She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeh you will damage her labia and thats all...LOLAndromax said:Dude i could do some damage with 11 CM
CERVICAL CONTACT CAUSES ORGASMS AND THE FEELING SHE SHE IS BEING FILLED UP...WOMEN LOVE THAT...Andromax said:The entry-way is the most sensitive area!!!1
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
yeah but a girl can put about 5gs in her chest with no other work needed but stay skinny and shes hot...guys cant do much but workout hardcore to get a nice body....Crazy Asian said:lol this has got to be a joke.
11cm isn't even THAT short.
and even if it is, it's the same as a girl having small boobs.
she's still fvckable.
heck, i even prefer girls to have smaller boobs.
I'm not disagreeing...DonGorgon said:CERVICAL CONTACT CAUSES ORGASMS AND THE FEELING SHE SHE IS BEING FILLED UP...WOMEN LOVE THAT...
How embarrassing. LOLJitterbug said:Lesson: don't leave yourself logged in to SS on a shared computer.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i am starting to lose faith in all this .i have the book by joseph matthews in addition to other emails i get from swingcat,and i am still confused.more confused than ever.KoalaKing said:Have you ever met an AlphaMale who is not Gay who has never fvcked a girl.
Have you ever met a man who has University Degrees is fully fit strong and powerfully built who is unemployable as well.
This is impossible you would all think however this is my own personal shocking truth.
I'm 40, have Degrees in Business, am a DJ and successful PUA, but I'm unemployable and never fvcked a girl.
Why you may ask, my c0ck is only 11cm long when fully erect, I'm too embarrassed to let anyone see it.
I can allure many hot babes, two have ended their own lives because I dumped them, I am agrophobic, a recluse, an angry man, I'd rather be dead.
I have to wear diapers when I leave my apartment as I cannot go into a public toilet to use the urinal because of my fear that my c0ck will be seen.
Men want to kill me, many have accused me of fvcking their hot wives whom I allured and picked up.
You can be like me confident powerfully built highly educated handsome and a chick magnet, however if your c0cks small you'll never be able to show it and you will never have a fvck.
Its sad I know but its true.![]()
yet why it works for some,is a mystery to me.whyme2008 said:i am starting to lose faith in all this .i have the book by joseph matthews in addition to other emails i get from swingcat,and i am still confused.more confused than ever.
i dont even know where to start.
i do not think using reverse psychology on your minds or what you call "self-mastery" will really do the job.
making a show of confidence(when you really scared inside),ending the date early,waiting before calling etc-to me is just a show to hide the emptiness man feels inside himself,the loneliness.
that is only a surface approach,its not real love at all.
you only trying to "act" not desperate,but the men are actually VERY desperate no matter what.
they do not really really complete on the inside.its just a show.
forgive me for criticizing,but these ideas have never worked for me.i was never successful since school days.
lol:crackup:Andromax said:I'm not disagreeing...
But if all I ahd to work with was 11 CM than that would be the biggest 11 cm ever!!
Damn you optimists...LOLAndromax said:I'm not disagreeing...
But if all I ahd to work with was 11 CM than that would be the biggest 11 cm ever!!