"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why I Stopped Dating Hot Women

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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El Payaso

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So he stopped dating "hot" women and decided to marry an average or ugly woman who will end up taking half his cash when she she gets bored or pops out a few kids. He's no better off.
 

bigneil

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For the past 7 months I've been dating the most beautiful girl I ever saw. If I didn't truly feel that way, it wouldn't have lasted. That said, I have to try as hard as I can to be the best guy she knows.
 

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I know ugly, or average looking women, who can't hold a conversation either tho. I think you either click with someone or you don't, regardless of looks. They blamed the relationship problems on their partners looks, when maybe they just werent right for each other. Sharing common interest is more important to me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Urbanyst

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I know ugly, or average looking women, who can't hold a conversation either tho. I think you either click with someone or you don't, regardless of looks. They blamed the relationship problems on their partners looks, when maybe they just werent right for each other. Sharing common interest is more important to me
That's true, but hot girls are still going to be different because they get more attention from a higher caliber of men than average and ugly girls.

From my experience, hot girls respond better to being ignored and treated with indifference than other girls.
 

The Duke

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I'd have to agree that most attractive girls do lean on the selfish side to some extent. And if they aren't selfish, then they are slightly entitled. Fine by me, if you got what everybody wants then you can command that price.
 

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I'd have to agree that most attractive girls do lean on the selfish side to some extent. And if they aren't selfish, then they are slightly entitled. Fine by me, if you got what everybody wants then you can command that price.
The overinflated ego is the game breaker.
 
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