"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Why I Stopped Dating Hot Women

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
So he stopped dating "hot" women and decided to marry an average or ugly woman who will end up taking half his cash when she she gets bored or pops out a few kids. He's no better off.
 

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
For the past 7 months I've been dating the most beautiful girl I ever saw. If I didn't truly feel that way, it wouldn't have lasted. That said, I have to try as hard as I can to be the best guy she knows.
 

17 shots

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2016
Messages
1,106
Reaction score
1,018
I know ugly, or average looking women, who can't hold a conversation either tho. I think you either click with someone or you don't, regardless of looks. They blamed the relationship problems on their partners looks, when maybe they just werent right for each other. Sharing common interest is more important to me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Urbanyst

Banned
Joined
Jan 28, 2017
Messages
2,382
Reaction score
1,787
Age
42
Location
The City
I know ugly, or average looking women, who can't hold a conversation either tho. I think you either click with someone or you don't, regardless of looks. They blamed the relationship problems on their partners looks, when maybe they just werent right for each other. Sharing common interest is more important to me
That's true, but hot girls are still going to be different because they get more attention from a higher caliber of men than average and ugly girls.

From my experience, hot girls respond better to being ignored and treated with indifference than other girls.
 

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,541
Reaction score
11,501
I'd have to agree that most attractive girls do lean on the selfish side to some extent. And if they aren't selfish, then they are slightly entitled. Fine by me, if you got what everybody wants then you can command that price.
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
I'd have to agree that most attractive girls do lean on the selfish side to some extent. And if they aren't selfish, then they are slightly entitled. Fine by me, if you got what everybody wants then you can command that price.
The overinflated ego is the game breaker.
 
Top