“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why I See " " That The World Is A Reflection!

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Think about it guys! There have been books written about it, science articles, philosophies and ancient wisdom..... It says that the world is like a mirrior.... it copies everything that you see and reflects it back to you! Why do I think this is true? Well I just had a sudden mental vision, it was like a breakthrough *(Breakthrough is a term to describe people having a good experience from dmt)* Funny thing is that I noticed people... I noticed them good... like really reallly goooddd!!! I mean it was like a human's on the national geographic except this was my version of it! I noticed that most humans are almost ALL 99.9% same!! and that is fukking true!!! Our looks maybe different, our routines maybe different, our lives may be in different scenaries and at different times... but we are all so fukking similiar and it hit me like a rock...... Most humans think the same thoughts, do the same things, breath the same oxygen, eat, **** and die!!! Now why am I telling you all these things? Well today I had this vision that everybody in the world is like me!!! inside, they all look different and all the usual stuff but anyways I imagined everybody in the world like me! Now what this did for me is it made me really like really realllyyy confident!!! Because that Don Juan or that big BUFF BODYBUILDER IS just like you!! and if you knew that he was like you would you talk to him? how would you think about him? what kind of a impression would he make on you? What I noticed is that everytime I see a reallly hot chick or a reallly handsome or pretty guy sometimes I would feel little insecure, but hell why am I feeling insecure when this guy is just like me? Why am I lowering myself, not respecting myself actually in a biological sense I am talking to a creature just like me!!!! So for a wierd amount of time today I started looking at everybody in the world as me and started having fun with them.... If it was me what would I want somebody to do for me? Would I want somebody to respect me? to have fun and love and care for me? Would I want somebody to connect with me on a really deep level and do the things I like and see things together!! Ofcourse exactly you would!!! Now what I want you guys to do is see everybody in the world as you!!!!! How would you interact with yourself if there only you or humans inside this world????? What I am trying to say is that we are humans... some of us posses couple of advantages over others but for god sakes we are all the same people.... Nobody is worse or better than the other!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I like this because I can relate to it. If you think about it, just because someone is bigger than you or smaller than you doesnt mean they aren't similar to you. Take fitness for example. Say you are 200 pounds and fat, you think your way. Then you begin working out, 2 years later you are 180 and 8% body fat... your thought process is still SIMILAR to how it was before, your emotions are SIMILAR, but the way you approach your situations have changed because of you EXPERIENCE. Its not that your thoughts changed, infact nothing changed, instead its how you approach life and other people.
 

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I agree, I've done my fair share of psychedelics and come to the same conclusion as well. In fact, I came to this conclusion before even reading any Buddhism or philosophy. The encounters you make throughout your life (people) mirror you, because they are you. Everything is one. The entire universe is one organism, and everything is powered by one essence. This one essence plays itself into different forms (us, plants, stars, animals, atoms, walls, trees, etc. and everything in existence.) It's all one organism, but we are under the illusion of being in different forms because the single consciousness is playing a game on itself.

I've experienced loss of ego with people I normally don't like, and suddenly we could read each others thoughts, almost as if we merged into one. Without ego, you merge with others and become them, because they are in a sense, you. Likewise with women and this site, you go into an interaction and a woman merely mirrors you, if you are afraid of her (since during an interactions, essences merge since they are the same momentarily, two human beings when connecting share the same reality,) she will be afraid of you, if you go into it liking her, she likes you. People are mirrors. The world is a mirror. I can't really describe it any other way unless you experience, obviously it sounds like a bunch of theory, but I've experienced it firsthand and know it in my soul to be true. And it's beautiful and scary at the same, at least for me.
 

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Waking Up said:
I agree, I've done my fair share of psychedelics and come to the same conclusion as well. In fact, I came to this conclusion before even reading any Buddhism or philosophy. The encounters you make throughout your life (people) mirror you, because they are you. Everything is one. The entire universe is one organism, and everything is powered by one essence. This one essence plays itself into different forms (us, plants, stars, animals, atoms, walls, trees, etc. and everything in existence.) It's all one organism, but we are under the illusion of being in different forms because the single consciousness is playing a game on itself.

I've experienced loss of ego with people I normally don't like, and suddenly we could read each others thoughts, almost as if we merged into one. Without ego, you merge with others and become them, because they are in a sense, you. Likewise with women and this site, you go into an interaction and a woman merely mirrors you, if you are afraid of her (since during an interactions, essences merge since they are the same momentarily, two human beings when connecting share the same reality,) she will be afraid of you, if you go into it liking her, she likes you. People are mirrors. The world is a mirror. I can't really describe it any other way unless you experience, obviously it sounds like a bunch of theory, but I've experienced it firsthand and know it in my soul to be true. And it's beautiful and scary at the same, at least for me.
i like this, its true by my experience with women as well. I had one of my good friends tell me that when we first met, it was wierd that i was so friendly and happy about life. But she also said that by me being friendly, it helped her trust me quicker.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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