"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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''Why I put my wifes career first''

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Unless she is going to have a WAY better job, I'd tell her no way in hell. Having a woman with the money and the puzzy powers is not going to make you a happy man.......

Now if I was going to marry one of Trumps daughters..... and there was no pre-nup.... yeah, I'd do that and take the easy way out.
 

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Fireballs said:
My gf just sent me this article. She has been trying to put the idea in my head of me being the stay at home parent if we have kids. I've already told her no way..does she think sending me crap like this is going to make me change my mind? Not sure what to say to her..

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/10/why-i-put-my-wifes-career-first/403240/
Find some studies which show house husbands especially if they do threir responsibility typically are not respected and the female desire for them diminishes. It causes a lot of trouble. There are plenty of studies which show this.

She might want to take your ballz and once she does don't think she will be sexing you. She will be more interested into men in her career world.
 

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If my wife made more money than me I'd be a complete d!ck if I refused to stay home due to my own ego.

I wouldn't marry a woman who thought less of me if I stayed home with the kids.

That said I'd still consult as a nurse paralegal on the side and have some property near the Jersey Shore with modular homes I rent out in the summer. I'm looking at this with the eyes of a 34 year old however, it's less common to have multiple streams of income in your 20s when most people have kids.

Pick your mates wisely is all I can say. A good woman dedicated to family wants what's best for everyone, not her own ego.

PS: While never a stay-at-home dad I have been a single dad for many moons now and if anything it turns women on to see how great I am with my daughter as well as their own kids. I am skeptical of studies when real life experience tells me different.
 

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What we are saying is unless you are an exceptional male hunk, most men loose attractiveness to these finicky "hot babes" by doing too much housework and being too supportive.

A more average but loving and fair woman, it won't be this way, her feelings may grow knowing she is supported.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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