Why I like one night stands...

[Reykhel]

I've made a decision...

With regards to women; that is to say love/sex "relationshiops" I only want one night stands. Only. Ok...One
night stands and day two's (ie timebridge to fvck)

I have a time limit: 9 months (I have a reason for that time frame) and the time started from this weekend...

Friday I bagged a 24 year old English chick. a 7 (that's really subjective and I don't give a fvck for it normally)

Why do I love one night stands? She left my flat today at around 11.30am with her friend (no threesome..) and there was no bullshvt talk about changing numbers and all that....did she buy into my frame? I jokingly had said "now don't start stalking me after tonight, yeah?" her response "don't worry, it'll be you catching feelings" chin chin......so i got what I wanted/she got what she wanted....I have no whatsapp friend and I'm free to be the selfish narcissist that I am and persue my own interests....

What's the reason...

I've came to the realisation that since I was a teenager....I've had the brainwashed disney belief that....I needed a significant other.....

When I was 17 I slipped into a ltr with a girl which would last 5 years....when it finished? Where's her replacement? I wanted to fvck as many women as possible to make up for lost time....but.....I wanted....ok maybe I fvcking needed her replacement....

I realise that I've had that a long time.....finish with a girl....replace her....coming from a need......not from a want...ie a compliment...

The last couple of years it's been all about me...however I noticed that feeling of replacement never quite went.....now....I have such a full life......a lot of activities, friends, interests....

...where would I fit a woman? that's the point.....I don't want to change my life.....for now.....and fit one in.....fvck that.....I am too selfish and I have no problem saying that...

but sex I do need.......so sport **** it is

However, sex is not the goal of this project or decision.....

what is?

Pure.....transient confidence
and...
Pure....unadulterated mental freedom

transient confidence from pick up skills and my own life....

mental freedom...from not wanting anything from anyone......(yes I want cvnt but that's easily obtainable)

 

[Reykhel]

I've just moved to a target rich area. It's in that am and I can and I will go out now at prime time...

You know, it's not on the sex but the interaction...but I do want the sex....

The fact that escorts are an option kind of takes any pressure of the need for sex from anyone....
a safety net if you will...

So why not five safety net numbers .....destitute and debenoir...

my goal would be to tap....without having to tap a number

 

[aforabi]

That's incredible!

If you noticed, no doctors, lawyers, and politicians were engaged with ONLY one woman at FIRST. They were seeing, and of course, laying, tons and tons of chicks before settling for the ONE. And you should do that too. It's not high school anymore. We are MAN and we decide and go for what we want out of life!

Before getting into a LTR, i used to have dozens of one-night stands with random chicks I hit on the streets. I found my LTR through cold approach and following some tips mentioned here on this forum. Yes, i have found my ONE, but for you, your journey is still on and I would wish you all the best for that...

 

[Bingo-Player]

Im a farily big fan of ONS and went through a wide range of women for around a month solid at one point when i was younger , and its nice to know you can have but im not sure its entirely beneficial for your health both physically and mentally it can be draining doing it all time
First off If your gonna try and get a chick to commit to a ONS the first time you meet her your gonna need one or the other
A) Being Extremely lucky being in the right time at the right place
B) Your game is on POINT
I was finding the harder i was trying to find a ONS the more energy it was taking from me and i was getting desperate
So i took around 5 months out of the field at the start of the year and picked it back up around may time ive banged 3 chicks since then and im fairly happy with that, i aim for around 1 new piece of pu$$y a month these days

 

[Reykhel]

Im a farily big fan of ONS and went through a wide range of women for around a month solid at one point when i was younger , and its nice to know you can have but im not sure its entirely beneficial for your health both physically and mentally it can be draining doing it all time
First off If your gonna try and get a chick to commit to a ONS the first time you meet her your gonna need one or the other
A) Being Extremely lucky being in the right time at the right place
B) Your game is on POINT
I was finding the harder i was trying to find a ONS the more energy it was taking from me and i was getting desperate
So i took around 5 months out of the field at the start of the year and picked it back up around may time ive banged 3 chicks since then and im fairly happy with that, i aim for around 1 new piece of pu$$y a month these days

You make some good points BP.

I suppose what I'm saying is I want to practice game and approaching which would be going out Friday and Saturday and some Thursdays, but without the hassle of setting up "dates" or seeing the girl during the week. Without the hassle of whatsapp messaging and receiving "good morning" texts. The ONS would be simply a by-product of practicing game. But hassle and drama free. Yes I want to have my cake and eat it.

But you're right...there could be mental and physical ramifications to consider. I'm a fvcker for not always wrapping up. I'm playing russian roulette there.

The real reason I was coming to this decision was because I was actually considering going into MONK MODE for a bit. But then I was concerned about going a long time without sex

When you took 5 months out of the field....was that a complete 5 month break? No hook ups, no dating, no nothing?

My last LTR ended two years ago. Different plans, I changed countries. We stayed talking for 3 months which I then cut contact. I initially went on a fvck fest to move on from her. Isn't that the commun advice? bang 12 chicksor so. Well I did. In my own country, then 8 alone on a trip to Cuba, then in my new country....the dating/ plate spinning. However I'm starting to think that at the back of my mind is that same old replacement mentality. I'd like to be able to come at it from a different angle....a more free angle.

Maybe a little Monk Mode could be the way to go...