Why I hate this website

[CamaroMike]

You are a man. Trust your instincts. If you fail, your maleness will be calling out to you to change, overcome obstacles, and win over the girl eventually. Life is a growing process. Stop asking questions, grab your balls, and do what your instincts tell you to do. The more you ask questions from others, the weaker you are. There is one person you should ask questions about girls in this world, yourself.

This website is for improvement, but not real improvement. Real improvement comes from you, and only you. Not from others.

 

[Silquee Smoove]

True that, Mike, but there are some guys that REALLY don't have a f*ckin' clue when it comes to women and when they go for an approach and fail they go home and cry about it afterward. (And that's just a sugar-coated way of looking at it!)

Lest I mention those idiots who actually KILL themselves over some stupid ho' who broke up with him and his whole reality shatters.

 

[CamaroMike]

I know, it's called Darwinism (survival of the fittest, the people who commited suicide over women were not strong, and didnt get to reproduce). And also, not every person deserves to be an alpha male (DJ). The guy that cries will either fish or cut bait, try harder or wither into sadness and porn; the choice is what makes the man.

 

[WestCoaster]

Look at this site as one big textbook

I used the hoop analogy before. You can be brazen and confident, but if you haven't practiced and perfected skills, you're just a confident putz -- and women know a confident putz a mile away.

A lot of us weren't taught these skills by parents and were weaned on AFC TV and books. This is one giant textbook. Not all the skills, tricks, etc., are for everyone. You take what works for you and go with it.

OK, old school says bring flowers and be a nice guy. TV, radio, books, magazines and even WOMEN say you do this. Then you do this and WOMEN hate it. Why? Because it's all one big, fat lie. (I'm not saying never bring flowers, but timing is everything.)

It might not work for you and because some of us have used this site to our benefit doesn't mean it's a bad place. It just might not be for you.

I know you're only 18, but try to look at the world from not just your lens.

Just guessing, in your line of work, whatever it is, you had to learn a trade or the skills to do it. You didn't just come up to the boss and said, "Hire me, because I'm confident." No, you had to have schooling, training, certification, or something.

 

[CamaroMike]

I don't have a trade, except stocks. I'm a playa. I come home everyday after school and make tons of money on the stockmarket, Godbless Ameritrade and options. That's why I can afford a Camaro SS and get girls like crazy, im a driven madman who is 17 and will not stop making money 'til I dies. Remember guys, you want to be a guy a girl loves? Be driven, succeed, be confident, have morals, know whats so, and p*ssy is yours.

 

[Shiftkey]

What kind of bullsh1t advice is this? This sounds like a machismo version of "just be yourself." I agree that you should follow your gut in certain situations, but seducing women is not always one of them. No one is born with the ability to attract women (unless you're just that good looking, but that's beside the point). It is a learned behavior. So called "natural DJs" are only natural DJs because they grew up with a dad or other mentor who they could model the correct behavior from. That's what this site is supposed to make up for. Not all guys had the benefit of a "seduction mentor" growing up.

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by CamaroMike
I don't have a trade, except stocks. I'm a playa. I come home everyday after school and make tons of money on the stockmarket, Godbless Ameritrade and options. That's why I can afford a Camaro SS and get girls like crazy, im a driven madman who is 17 and will not stop making money 'til I dies. Remember guys, you want to be a guy a girl loves? Be driven, succeed, be confident, have morals, know whats so, and p*ssy is yours.

your a playa? hahaahaha. Dude u are still a young little naive boy. Wait until u go through some hard times, u wont think you are so cool anymore. U are not confident, u are just arogant, which can come tumbling down quickly. Once u really do establish confidence built through trials and true success as a person (not just a little boy who makes a few bucks on his computer), then come back and post, then I will show u some respect.

 

[Walden]

Re: Look at this site as one big textbook

Originally posted by WestCoaster
I used the hoop analogy before. You can be brazen and confident, but if you haven't practiced and perfected skills, you're just a confident putz -- and women know a confident putz a mile away.
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I would like to disagree in the most vehement terms possible. Chicks cannot tell the diffrence between confident putzes and genuinely "good catches" they have no idea. We don't judge chicks by their cofidence so it seems funny to us , but chicks are incapable of it , it's like paralell parking and killing spiders.

 

[jakethasnake]

This kid is such a poseur.


But he gave decent advice. He's right on one count - always follow your MALE instinct, not that little scared bytch in your head.

 

[Austin Allegro]

Newbies, including myself, tend go through a 'reforming AFC' phase of taking everything on this site as chapter and verse - ie treating being a DJ like an exact science.

Then you realise that this is not important and that the essence of DJ is 'being a man' and doing what you feel is right rather than slavishly following a 'system' and girlishly obsessing about womens' behaviour.

Sounds like CamaroMike at the surprisingly young age has skipped the 'newbie' stage.

More power to you Mike but remember that most of us need the 'refining' stage and haven't been born with your innate talents.

By the way isn't a Camaro some kind of rather flash cheap motor in the US - now if you had a 1929 supercharged Bentley Blower I MIGHT be impressed....

 

[Zeus]

CLOONEY

I agree with you man, u are so right.

 

[wolfie]

Originally posted by CamaroMike
You are a man. Trust your instincts. If you fail, your maleness will be calling out to you to change, overcome obstacles, and win over the girl eventually. Life is a growing process. Stop asking questions, grab your balls, and do what your instincts tell you to do. The more you ask questions from others, the weaker you are. There is one person you should ask questions about girls in this world, yourself.

This website is for improvement, but not real improvement. Real improvement comes from you, and only you. Not from others.

I know, it's called Darwinism (survival of the fittest, the people who commited suicide over women were not strong, and didnt get to reproduce). And also, not every person deserves to be an alpha male (DJ). The guy that cries will either fish or cut bait, try harder or wither into sadness and porn; the choice is what makes the man.

So you're saying that you're proud of what natural gifts and fortunate circumstances you have and that these gifts mean that you 'deserve' success? And that people who learn how to succeed using books or websites like this instead of being born with inbred talent or falling into success through lucky circumstances are actually weak, and don't 'deserve' to succeed like you do? This is what you call survival of the fittest right?

 

[drZaius09]

Sorry, but I'll be damned to take advice on manliness from someone who drives a camaro -- an obvious compensation vehicle.

 

[Mr. Delicious]

Originally posted by drZaius09
Sorry, but I'll be damned to take advice on manliness from someone who drives a camaro -- an obvious compensation vehicle.

Hey I drive a 2000 SS Camaro. I bought it brand new. I never use it to get girls. The only girls that go for that thing are trashy anyway. I bought it because I love the power and I love drag racing. I am just finishing up on a turbocharger setup from QMP and I definately did not get that to pick up chicks Please dont stereotype everyone with a Camaro.

 

[HighLowJack]

This site is a heck of a lot more then getting girls. Its a self improvement website. Im 37 and iv learned a lot from this site. Some of the guys in here are brilliant. Read anything by Pook.

I find a lot of the conversations are about psychology. How we think. Why we think that way. Why we act a certain way.

Diesels stuff in the Health and Fitness forum is good reading.

Id rather read the forums in here then go out and by a book.

 

[( . )( . )]

whats with the dramatics?, hates a strong word.

You are a man. Trust your instincts. If you fail, your maleness will be calling out to you to change, overcome obstacles, and win over the girl eventually. Life is a growing process. Stop asking questions, grab your balls, and do what your instincts tell you to do. The more you ask questions from others, the weaker you are. There is one person you should ask questions about girls in this world, yourself.

good stuff.

 

[So pimp its scary]

This site is to learn about seduction... seduction is not an intuitive process for most people.

Now, the reason that the focus for the newbies is improvement of the self, for the simple reason that insecurties are the most repulsive traits that anyone can have.

Once you develop your confidence, through all these self-improvement techniques, you can start to learn how to throw game, and start seducing women properly.

My philosophy has become that it's not soo important how many women I sleep with, but if I can make the woman love me through and through, and then reward them with sex... it is much more of a rewarding process... and I enjoy it alot more...

Everyone must develop their own style, and the important part about asking questions is to try and get the opinions of people that have gone through the experience before, and therefore know what should be done in some situations. That is the best thing to do... learn from the mistakes of others... and you can't do that without asking questions.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by CamaroMike
You are a man. Trust your instincts. If you fail, your maleness will be calling out to you to change, overcome obstacles, and win over the girl eventually. Life is a growing process. Stop asking questions, grab your balls, and do what your instincts tell you to do. The more you ask questions from others, the weaker you are. There is one person you should ask questions about girls in this world, yourself.

This website is for improvement, but not real improvement. Real improvement comes from you, and only you. Not from others.

You must be the ring leader of the "BE YOURSELF" club....



PIMP

 

[AMF]

Round in circles?

It's true: most of the stuff being said now, has been said before. Just search the archive. Sometimes it feels like we're goin round in circles, but its a crazy ride anyway, and im staying on.

 

[Player_Supreme]

amen