"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why I got a date with a 21yr old

Stallionstud

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look different act differently. I go into a dive bar, super fvcking long hair, I toss it around order a beer ask the bartender about that place’s history. The old guy down the way joins the conversation, I’m cracking jokes about him. Conviently he’s there with a 21yr old and a woman my age 30’s. The girl my age keeps hitting on me making a huge deal about my hair. Im generally indifferent about all this BS —-until—- the 21 yr old goes to the bathroom. When she gets back guess who’s sitting right next to her seat laughing with her friends. she gives me her card we talk forever I go to leave.

Right before I walk out the door I talk to an old lady for 5 minuets I go take a piss, I get to my truck and here comes running across the parking lot that fine ass 21yr old and literally jumps into my arms.

Can’t make this stuff up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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'stach and goatee w/stubble - girls want to feel it against the nipples..
they ask for it or I tell them they know they want to = "yessss"
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stallionstud

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The young girls don’t wait man, last one was 24, took her down on the second date.

If you’re not sealing the deal date 2 something is off.
 
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