"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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r4zorsharp

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Not always, but yes.
Yeah man. There's a lot we don't know about ourselves and we kinda learn by exchanges with others. I think you need to really step back and evaluate everything abou this girl and this relationship, and maybe look at yourself and see where you stand. Look at all the girls you've dated and how things were with them. Sometimes guys can be pushovers or just the type to let the girl steer , and it's often not a good thing because they are oblivious, and a man that waits for girls to always make the first move, will be susceptible to a more experienced woman's manipulation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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firstbornunicorn

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Yeah man. There's a lot we don't know about ourselves and we kinda learn by exchanges with others. I think you need to really step back and evaluate everything abou this girl and this relationship, and maybe look at yourself and see where you stand. Look at all the girls you've dated and how things were with them. Sometimes guys can be pushovers or just the type to let the girl steer , and it's often not a good thing because they are oblivious, and a man that waits for girls to always make the first move, will be susceptible to a more experienced woman's manipulation.
The ones I was talking about in this thread are all over. It just seemed to be a trend.
 

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This is prolly why womens mental health is down the toilet they just dont give a damn about working on it and instead would rather medicate with men.
 
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