"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why Go Through Drama and stress? BE HAPPY

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I have been Reading a lot of different threads...."Should I respond?" "I Think She’s BPD?" “Is she manipulating me” e.t.c e.t.c

One thing I have learned why go through all this drama? This not required for happiness! A lot of People here make out picking up a HB to be equivalent to finding the Holy Grail! This is not true what so ever!

Stop Keyboard Jockeying and actually apply the principles you have learned!

Getting a Women’s number and going on dates are so much easier than a lot of SS members make it out to be....My main point though is if you’re dealing with a drama filled situation why go through with it? There is no way it brining you happiness …In all honesty most of these situations would get solved with minimal to no involvement!!! Did you ever think that if you left it alone or did close to nothing it would solve itself!! B/c most of these situation this is fact! Stop Over thinking…takes it for what it is! Backing off or going ghost will make some of these situations dissipate and will come out with outcomes to your benefit....Spin knew plates...Maybe the new women you meet won’t be crazy and drama filled…Do what is going to make you Happy not bring you down.

I meet at least one potential plate everyday just by going on my lunch break and chatting people up....There is no reason you cannot do it....Have some Self worth… don’t let women compromise your integrity!!! Stop B1tching and be a MAN!

Keep Spinning,
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to j0504s again
 

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Ironically, yesterday my date said "I have been observing you and you are a positive person, which is why I trust you like this (being in my bed)".

So they are watching us to see how happy we are in general anyway.
 

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Purefilth said:
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to j0504s again
HAHA Thank you ill put in my mental rep Bank...lol
 

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bigneil said:
Ironically, yesterday my date said "I have been observing you and you are a positive person, which is why I trust you like this (being in my bed)".

So they are watching us to see how happy we are in general anyway.
BN Thank you for this....Prime example of attraction at its best...women can sense your level of happiness...your level of ambition...Level of self worth...etc…Idk about everyone else but i seem to be ablt to sense womens aura in this light as well...unless you want to put all this effort into creating perceived value and get a women based off unauthentic principles, which is not going to last go ahead(not knocking perceived value but if this is all you got you are probably empty inside)....JUST BUILD IT YOUR SELF...things become very simple when your life and mind are centered...good things just happen when you stick to simple principle of integrity!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let the pieces fall as they may!
 

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BrownBear said:
isn't it "Let the chips fall where they may" ?
Lol ur right about that my bad lol
 

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Have the mindset that everything will work out...and it will!
 

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"Try not to take things personally; what people say about you is a reflection of them, not you."

Love this quote thought id share as it applies
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"Integrity if the foundation upon which all other values are built"
 

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Its a lot more exciting living without trying to be in control of the outcome and just putting your best foot forward. Most of the problems guys have here stem from trying to force something that would come naturally if they just let it flow.

Your only job in life is to feel good about yourself. Everything you do in life should be focused on this goal!
 

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r0cky said:
Its a lot more exciting living without trying to be in control of the outcome and just putting your best foot forward. Most of the problems guys have here stem from trying to force something that would come naturally if they just let it flow.

Your only job in life is to feel good about yourself. Everything you do in life should be focused on this goal!
Forget the goal and you will be even happier
 

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r0cky said:
Its a lot more exciting living without trying to be in control of the outcome and just putting your best foot forward. Most of the problems guys have here stem from trying to force something that would come naturally if they just let it flow.

Your only job in life is to feel good about yourself. Everything you do in life should be focused on this goal!
Yes...I agree and to much analyzing can honestly be cancerous to your mind soul and ego...Just walk away from drama and dont co signs peoples...stay a man of integrity!!:up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Confidence on the outside begins by living with the integrity on the inside"
 

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I saw this quote and laughed...

"A real woman avoids drama. She knows her time is precious and she’s not wasting it on the unimportant things."

If only all women could be like that ahha
 

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I just showed this to my very good friend who's ex broke up with him...b/c he listened to me she wants him back...and she sbeing super dramatic about it....He was in shock to how simple but valuble this was...so thought it deserved a BUMP for some ppl hwo havent seen it yet.
 

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bradd80 said:
good job j05 in 10 years you'll be running this board. Me and purefilth are expecting a lot from you don't let us down.


haha ty bradd. greatly appreciated and u know I wont let you down brotha!!

Integrity recognizes integrity!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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