Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why give advice to other men?

CrimsonPanther

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user name said:
A rather idealistic outlook, wouldn't you say?

Men don't envy other men and look up to those with success, without feeling any resentment, heh?

History says otherwise.
you may be right.
but when you ask a little boy what he wants to be, he will probably say something like this: "i wanna be like batman/bill gates/etc because he is so cool" genuine admiration.
girls will say: "i wanna be x/y's wife or some actress/singer, and then all the other girls will be like wow" vanity and envy.

of course everything is open to debate and i am not hurt if proven wrong. sometimes you are right, sometimes you not.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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1 Peter 4:10 “Like good stewards of the manifold grace of God, serve one another with whatever gift each of you has received.”

Philippians 2:4 "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."

Hebrews 13:16 "Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God."
 
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zekko said:
Is that we're they're teaching here? To treat women like dirt?
Straight up serious question.

Of course you certainly don't want to idolize them either.
Eh, not treating women like dirt but not idolizing them like you said.
 

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El Suave said:
1 Peter 4:10 “Like good stewards of the manifold grace of God, serve one another with whatever gift each of you has received.”

Philippians 2:4 "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."

Hebrews 13:16 "Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God."

all very well but when that information gets into the wrong hands and used for selfish means (check out most threads on this forum) then you have chaos. there is a reason why the 'elite' keep things to themselves.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking this question you are IMO subconsciously putting women on a pedestal. A woman is not the end all be all in a mans life and vice versa. I would rather spend time finding a cure for cancer then waste my time being married or in a relationship. Hopefully this social construct crumbles. Most women would still find a way to claim finding a cure for cancer. You spend to much time trying to find a cure and not paying attention to me, so I banged your best friend.wahhhhhhhh Get your priorities are messed up relationships are overrated and when the time comes from them, learn enjoy and move on. You got work to do....DO IT
 

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It's always good to give back. I remember when I first came here and I was a complete mess, fortunately someone helped me and lead me in the right direction.

What we speak about here isn't going to increase the competition substantially anyway, considering there is billions of women out there and only a few men that are going to actually look at themselves and go you know what, I am going to step up get rejected lots of times and put my ego aside and learn how to do this thing.

Even a lot of the advice that is on here is wasted, considering some guys do no field work and just read and send messages on the forums.

If a guy can take the advice on here and do something with it, then good on him. I also find some days I will be giving advice to someone then I will have a relapse of AFC'ness and I will be helped by that same someone.

We have come a lot further than most guys by helping each other out and acting on that advice, so from the looks of it we are winning and this works to our advantage.
 

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To improve society we live in and its as simple as this: the more men that swallow the red pill the more those said men will put up with women's ****. After seeing that men are no longer putting up with their ****, they will change to appeal to men, thus creating a higher quality of women. So yeah, in theory we are only creating competition for ourselves, but we're also creating better quality women.

Ahhh, can you imagine that? A world with high quality women?
 
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