Why girls are rude to me?

[Harsh]

Don't think I'm trying to be arrogant but I'm considered physicially attractive and good looking by everyone. But the thing is many times girls are rude to me and just try to make me feel ugly and upset.
Like I joined a group chat yesterday online and one girl said "Omg he is way too cute"
but other 10-12 girls called me "he is gay", and random insults. Other men totally insulted me. When I asked why you guys are acting like this, a girl said to go away if i can't take it. And in random gc a girl said "***** we are cringing your unibrows" and I don't even have unibrows. It was just looking dark in picture. I mean they just try to break me and make me realize I am 'NOTHING'. And guys does worse, they would litterally destroy me mentally and some girls laugh with them. In real life I get a lot signs from
girls but then they start to ignore me.
3 girls had crush on me in coaching classes and were literally showing all signs everyday. When I sent them friend request on fb they didn't even accept it even tho they accepted everyone's friend request from coaching. I didn't like them much and they were like 6.5/10. These girls also said to a friend how cute I am but then ignored me. I get a lot of likes on tinder and most of the times unknown girls text hi to me but they don't ignore me when I reply back lol. Can anyone tell me why they do this? It's very hard living like this.

 

[Spaz]

Go read @bigdave17 threads.

If you are anything like that, I wish you lots of luck.

If you aren't, just don't be like that, you'll be fine after reading the DJ Bible.

 

[LaughyDuck]

Don't think I'm trying to be arrogant but I'm considered physicially attractive and good looking by everyone. But the thing is many times girls are rude to me and just try to make me feel ugly and upset.
Like I joined a group chat yesterday online and one girl said "Omg he is way too cute"
but other 10-12 girls called me "he is gay", and random insults. Other men totally insulted me. When I asked why you guys are acting like this, a girl said to go away if i can't take it. And in random gc a girl said "***** we are cringing your unibrows" and I don't even have unibrows. It was just looking dark in picture. I mean they just try to break me and make me realize I am 'NOTHING'. And guys does worse, they would litterally destroy me mentally and some girls laugh with them. In real life I get a lot signs from
girls but then they start to ignore me.
3 girls had crush on me in coaching classes and were literally showing all signs everyday. When I sent them friend request on fb they didn't even accept it even tho they accepted everyone's friend request from coaching. I didn't like them much and they were like 6.5/10. These girls also said to a friend how cute I am but then ignored me. I get a lot of likes on tinder and most of the times unknown girls text hi to me but they don't ignore me when I reply back lol. Can anyone tell me why they do this? It's very hard living like this.

That is pretty normal if your are an 8 or above in looks. Girls and women try to put me down constantly everywhere I go.

Just the VERY attractive women seem to be genuinely interested in me.
Guys send me aggressive looks sometimes to the point of being extremely hostile.

I can guarantee you that you probably are MIN. 8 or scratching the 9.5 in looks. Don't let those people bring you down, and refrain from showing your pic in the internet. Jealous people will do anything to make you feel bad. Don't bother to get to know 6.5 women it's not worth the hassle.

"He is gay" btw is the code for "He is way too attractive for me I now feel extremely insecure...."

And also if you are fit or even ripped REALLY don't bother to get to know average women, try to be friendly to them but don't give them too much of your attention (that's all they want from you).

This is the only advice I can give you.

 

[sazc]

No one can make you feel anything or act any way. You allow people to affect you.

Ignore the trolls

 

[sosousage]

Don't think I'm trying to be arrogant but I'm considered physicially attractive and good looking by everyone. But the thing is many times girls are rude to me and just try to make me feel ugly and upset.
Like I joined a group chat yesterday online and one girl said "Omg he is way too cute"
but other 10-12 girls called me "he is gay", and random insults. Other men totally insulted me. When I asked why you guys are acting like this, a girl said to go away if i can't take it. And in random gc a girl said "***** we are cringing your unibrows" and I don't even have unibrows. It was just looking dark in picture. I mean they just try to break me and make me realize I am 'NOTHING'. And guys does worse, they would litterally destroy me mentally and some girls laugh with them. In real life I get a lot signs from
girls but then they start to ignore me.
3 girls had crush on me in coaching classes and were literally showing all signs everyday. When I sent them friend request on fb they didn't even accept it even tho they accepted everyone's friend request from coaching. I didn't like them much and they were like 6.5/10. These girls also said to a friend how cute I am but then ignored me. I get a lot of likes on tinder and most of the times unknown girls text hi to me but they don't ignore me when I reply back lol. Can anyone tell me why they do this? It's very hard living like this.

first situation seems like immature circle jerk

go hit gym


and get rid of that unibrow

 

[RangerMIke]

Don't think I'm trying to be arrogant but I'm considered physicially attractive and good looking by everyone. But the thing is many times girls are rude to me and just try to make me feel ugly and upset.
Like I joined a group chat yesterday online and one girl said "Omg he is way too cute" but other 10-12 girls called me "he is gay", and random insults. Other men totally insulted me.

Normal human behavior when someone new shows up to join the 'tribe', it's part of human evolution. You should have learned this on the playground growing up. The new guy always gets picked on to test their metal.

When I asked why you guys are acting like this, a girl said to go away if i can't take it. And in random gc a girl said "***** we are cringing your unibrows" and I don't even have unibrows. It was just looking dark in picture. I mean they just try to break me and make me realize I am 'NOTHING'. And guys does worse, they would litterally destroy me mentally and some girls laugh with them. In real life I get a lot signs from girls but then they start to ignore me.

You were tested and failed... you got all butt hurt and defensive. When chicks do this there are a couple of things you can do (1) Just ignore it, pretend it didn't happen, just keep doing what you, water off a duck's back just pretend it didn't happen. (2) Turn whatever they say into something sexual say something like "Well, you can shave my unibrow if you let me shave something else ; )" Whatever they say, just own it and turn it sexual. When get a cluster of 'hens' chattering away suggesting you are gay, just say "Ladies, ladies.... stop worrying, I like women and I can satisfy all of you."

When dudes do this you have to turn it around on them and try to be funny about it, let him know whatever he/they said doesn't bother you and diffuse with humor. A few months ago I was at a fundraiser and met the boyfriend of a women I know. I could tell he was threatened by me and made some comment about the tux I was wearing, suggesting I was trying to impress people and that I was over dressed. I said "What this old thing? Yea I have better tuxedos at home, but I plan on wearing those to better events... BTW where did you get that hat? I'm thinking of dressing like a hobo for Marti Gras next month and it would be perfect to complete the costume." Then smile and look him right in the eye. Do not defend yourself, just turn it around on him and don't back down. If he comes back with another insult, just ignore it and wait for him to answer your question... then say "Well never mind, I don;t need to know where you got the hat, I'm sure I can find it at a second hand store. BTW what do you do for a living....." Then just draw him into a conversation where he is talking about himself... if he's talking about himself, he can't insult you.

3 girls had crush on me in coaching classes and were literally showing all signs everyday. When I sent them friend request on fb they didn't even accept it even tho they accepted everyone's friend request from coaching. I didn't like them much and they were like 6.5/10. These girls also said to a friend how cute I am but then ignored me. I get a lot of likes on tinder and most of the times unknown girls text hi to me but they don't ignore me when I reply back lol. Can anyone tell me why they do this? It's very hard living like this.

Weak behavior. You should just ask them out... sending FB friend requests doesn't help you. The fact that they didn't respond either means they do not think they know you well enough to be a friend, or that you might be interested and just want to stalk them. It might not be what you meant by sending the request, but this is likely what they think.

 

[Harsh]

That is pretty normal if your are an 8 or above in looks. Girls and women try to put me down constantly everywhere I go.

Just the VERY attractive women seem to be genuinely interested in me.
Guys send me aggressive looks sometimes to the point of being extremely hostile.

I can guarantee you that you probably are MIN. 8 or scratching the 9.5 in looks. Don't let those people bring you down, and refrain from showing your pic in the internet. Jealous people will do anything to make you feel bad. Don't bother to get to know 6.5 women it's not worth the hassle.

"He is gay" btw is the code for "He is way too attractive for me I now feel extremely insecure...."

And also if you are fit or even ripped REALLY don't bother to get to know average women, try to be friendly to them but don't give them too much of your attention (that's all they want from you).

This is the only advice I can give you.

Completely agreed dude.
I have just become bad and arrogant now tho..
why would I be nice when people try to bring me down anyway

 

[Harsh]

Normal human behavior when someone new shows up to join the 'tribe', it's part of human evolution. You should have learned this on the playground growing up. The new guy always gets picked on to test their metal.

You were tested and failed... you got all butt hurt and defensive. When chicks do this there are a couple of things you can do (1) Just ignore it, pretend it didn't happen, just keep doing what you, water off a duck's back just pretend it didn't happen. (2) Turn whatever they say into something sexual say something like "Well, you can shave my unibrow if you let me shave something else ; )" Whatever they say, just own it and turn it sexual. When get a cluster of 'hens' chattering away suggesting you are gay, just say "Ladies, ladies.... stop worrying, I like women and I can satisfy all of you."

When dudes do this you have to turn it around on them and try to be funny about it, let him know whatever he/they said doesn't bother you and diffuse with humor. A few months ago I was at a fundraiser and met the boyfriend of a women I know. I could tell he was threatened by me and made some comment about the tux I was wearing, suggesting I was trying to impress people and that I was over dressed. I said "What this old thing? Yea I have better tuxedos at home, but I plan on wearing those to better events... BTW where did you get that hat? I'm thinking of dressing like a hobo for Marti Gras next month and it would be perfect to complete the costume." Then smile and look him right in the eye. Do not defend yourself, just turn it around on him and don't back down. If he comes back with another insult, just ignore it and wait for him to answer your question... then say "Well never mind, I don;t need to know where you got the hat, I'm sure I can find it at a second hand store. BTW what do you do for a living....." Then just draw him into a conversation where he is talking about himself... if he's talking about himself, he can't insult you.

Weak behavior. You should just ask them out... sending FB friend requests doesn't help you. The fact that they didn't respond either means they do not think they know you well enough to be a friend, or that you might be interested and just want to stalk them. It might not be what you meant by sending the request, but this is likely what they think.

Agree with all points expect last part.. I came to know from a friend that one of those girl said that I would prolly reject her (so they prolly thought I am out of their league)