"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why girls are behaving like a **** after having sex?

Trapper

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i donno if you have experienced or not.. i recently slept with one girl and we had a good nite.. but after than she acted like weird.. she was like angry.. WTF.. i did not get it... you been there before?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes.

More effort trying to figure it out than it's worth.

It was just sex. Next!
 

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Trapper said:
i donno if you have experienced or not.. i recently slept with one girl and we had a good nite.. but after than she acted like weird.. she was like angry.. WTF.. i did not get it... you been there before?
she was upset because you finish before her.. next time don't be so selfish :nono:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, in the moment, girls can get carried away and do things they wouldn't otherwise do (if you're a good seducer), when they wake up and the effect has worn off, they feel a little cheap and may have regrets.
 

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BuildingSomethingBig said:
Dude, in the moment, girls can get carried away and do things they wouldn't otherwise do (if you're a good seducer), when they wake up and the effect has worn off, they feel a little cheap and may have regrets.
That, and:

1: Did you finish her off?

2: Did you spend time cuddling afterwards?

If these two things aren't fulfilled, it leaves women feeling cheap, used, and extremely unsatisfied.
 

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You definitely need to describe the entire sarge, how you met her. What your interactions were like before the sex. The LMR you faced (or didn't) if she was drinking, and the moments after sex.

So the real question is "why do girls act like a ***** to you after sex" ;-)
 
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This is normal - Hors have bad attitudes -- fvck her!!! Oh yeah, you already did! :rolleyes: I mean figuratively speaking!!!


BuildingSomethingBig said:
Dude, in the moment, girls can get carried away and do things they wouldn't otherwise do (if you're a good seducer), when they wake up and the effect has worn off, they feel a little cheap and may have regrets.
Poppycock!!!! Your statement is nonsensical!! ARe you saying this is the first time this hor took her panties off for a dude??? HUH??? This is what hors do - she is not out of character - this is the least they do!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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