Why get into relationships at a young age?

[guywhoneedshelp]

Most people on this board who are against relationships seem to just be bitter guys.

Fair enough. But what I'm saying does apply to the majority of young males.

I've been there, done that. Met a girl when I wasn't working, wasn't going to school, had a savings account of $10,000 that I basically just lived off of while we did whatever we want, had sex every day, treated my credit card like it had no limit, and had a blast.

But then I realized that I wasn't moving forward in life, so I proceeded to become very busy doing what I needed to do to become successful. And she didn't like it. She wanted things to stay the way they are. But what she didn't realize that as we got older and had more bills to pay that type of lifestyle is only possible for those who win the lottery.

Yes, I learned from relationships. But I also wasted a lot of time (and money) by being in them and could of learned equally as much by dating multiple girls and avoiding commitment.

 

[DonGorgon]

I totally agree with the poster. Most girls under the age of 25 simply do not care for a relationship regardless of what they tell you. Eventually after a month or two they take you for granted and are not sure of what exactly they want in life anyway.

Instead, sleep with whoever you find attractive, have fun and settle down when you are getting old.

Thats what most people do then lie about it....