"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why gender issues aren't treated like others issues ?

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Well, we all know that these days, a racist comment, or anythings based on religion, ethnicity, race or color can put you in jail, or at least fined.
You basicly cannot say something like "all jews are these or that", or anything like without geting yourself in trouble or becoming news.

And yet you can say things like that about men in general or about women.

Why is it that people are oversensitive about one kind of thing, but not others ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hypocrisy.

It's "shameful" to use the N word or make any racist or sexist statements against blacks or jews or hispanics or women.

But watch BET and those comics make a living by trashing white men.

It should be the worst "racist" crime to slander a white man, because he's the one footing for the bill for these people's existence.
 

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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
Hypocrisy.

It's "shameful" to use the N word or make any racist or sexist statements against blacks or jews or hispanics or women.

But watch BET and those comics make a living by trashing white men.

It should be the worst "racist" crime to slander a white man, because he's the one footing for the bill for these people's existence.
First off I'm asian and not white, but I am an American so I definitely see instances of white men getting put down in major media in the US.

To be fair, I do see Hispanic men getting dissed all the time - i.e. they refer to him as Juan, the lowly gardener, or pool boy.

I agree that the 3 groups that are completely protected are blacks, jews, and women. They are like the de-facto Gods. I think the reason why is because they have banded and formed organizations to support their special interests.

Slandering entire races is pretty lame. I know they do it in mass media for laughs but it really is a low-brow way to get a laugh.
 

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It's true. Kids can watch movies and cartoon with people killing and shooting, but if it has anything to do with sex, noooo, you cant watch that...

I agree that the 3 groups that are completely protected are blacks, jews, and women. They are like the de-facto Gods. I think the reason why is because they have banded and formed organizations to support their special interests
It reminds of the organization of whatever for women who is saying that the talk show hoster who had sex with staff members have created an "hostile" work environment... Why they don't say that she created it by having sex with the boss ?

Maybe it's time for the creation for such organizations for men as well.
 
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