Why exactly did she get pissed off

[jafyk]

You did that to yourself . You were qualifying her in the whole conversation .

Also , you we're setting the whole stage up . Here :

1:11amJafyk
ok well u have to promise not to over react. Afterall you wanted to know.

Why should she over react to something normal ? If you told her in normal way she wouldnt respond like that .You showed that you are judgmental guy.

Also your pathetic attempt to be ****y+funny in non appropriate moment backfired you .

I have a sense of how girls tend to take things like the question I asked. It's why I told her not to overreact. Perhaps that was a mistake on my part and I should've let the chips fall where they may. I wanted to take a risk in asking a question like that. Instead of playing it safe with girl (which some of us tend to sometimes). Like I said there are other girls out there. I don't particularly care if she wants to be in touch or not. All I wanted out of this post was to know why she got pissed. To others reading . I think it's best to respond to the specific question a poster asks.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

I have a sense of how girls tend to take things like the question I asked. It's why I told her not to overreacted. Perhaps that was a mistake on my part and I should've let the chips fall where they may. I wanted to take a risk in asking a question like that. Instead of playing it safe with girl (which some of us tend to sometimes). Like I said there are other girls out there. I don't particularly care if she wants to be in touch or not. All I wanted out of this post was to know why she got pissed. To others reading . I think it's best to respond to the specific question a poster asks.

Your problem is that you're very nice guy . These are my thoughts of you .
And i wrote that because i was pissed from some kind of similar threads like yours .

Dont get me wrong but from what i saw in your post , you need :

Confidence Because you should be confident while saying things. Remember , you set the limits . If you think something is cool , girls gonna think its cool too . So , when you said promise not to over react , you were setting the frame that she is going to over react . Instead of busting her balls if she reacted . You could have said " you overreact like a fvcking children" or something like that if she overreacts .
Calibration You need to know when to say things and how to say them .
Much more field game To get calibration , only first hand experience can help you .
Changing nice guy attitude Stop qualifying . You're the prize . Make her qualify to you . And be a badass rockstar type of guy that she will want to fvck on the spot .

 

[jafyk]

Your problem is that you're very nice guy . These are my thoughts of you .
And i wrote that because i was pissed from some kind of similar threads like yours .

Dont get me wrong but from what i saw in your post , you need :

Confidence Because you should be confident while saying things. Remember , you set the limits . If you think something is cool , girls gonna think its cool too . So , when you said promise not to over react , you were setting the frame that she is going to over react . Instead of busting her balls if she reacted . You could have said " you overreact like a fvcking children" or something like that if she overreacts .
Calibration You need to know when to say things and how to say them .
Much more field game To get calibration , only first hand experience can help you .
Changing nice guy attitude Stop qualifying . You're the prize . Make her qualify to you . And be a badass rockstar type of guy that she will want to fvck on the spot .

Thanks for your post. It's given me an alternate perspective. I guess I set up a potential negative frame by asking her not to overreact and considering that despite my apology she didn't acknowledge me. I should've just done as you said to begin with. I still come here because I'm still in a learning process.