"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why every young man/woman could/should be atleast a 6 or a 7!

nightcrawler

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wutangfinancial said:
post a pic.

Also, "getting attention" is for male pop stars. Most guys don't get attention in the form of girls rushing them and throwing themselves at their feet. They get IOI's, which are much subtler.
I don't get any IOIs from anybody...not even gay guys :down:

or maybe I don't notice them, either way I'm sure it's a rarity if it does happen.

I am currently working out and trying to get some pecs..maybe I can make it to 6.5 or 7
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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muhuwahaha said:
I don't get any IOIs from anybody...not even gay guys :down:

or maybe I don't notice them, either way I'm sure it's a rarity if it does happen.

I am currently working out and trying to get some pecs..maybe I can make it to 6.5 or 7
I believe EVERYBODY can improve themselves to 8 status through learning to control your emotions and show affection towards a woman i.e. love and through working out, of course.
 

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LoneSilver said:
I do believe some people If and only If they are bothered by their deformity should go ahead and have surgery to correct the something that bothers them if they have the money to do so.

I have the money to pay for any kind of surgery needed to correct my eyes but every eye specialist says it won't do any good so I have to live with it but I am slowly learning to live with it..Friends tell me all the time they don't see any problems with my eyes and don't really notice it so it's like I am making a mole out of a mountain...then I run into someone I haven't seen in years and the first thing they ask is did someone hit me in the eye?

So it's hard not being self consious about it but I am getting better trying to make an unattractive thing attractive by wearing a custom made eye patch unlike the dorky black kinds you get on the market... but I will overcome.

LoneSilver

What happened to your eye? Did you get an orbital fracture?
 

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The eye doctor isn't sure what caused it. I have been to the best in this area but to come on like this in my adult years as he says it's rare and strange the way my eyes are as I am clear of all major diseases that could cause it... but I know it's a 3rd and 6th nerve issue of the eyes.. both nerves are dead that deal with the upper eyelid and the nerve that controls the one eye. Until I can't see out of the one eye corrective surgery isn't gotta help.

So if your looking at me the one eye droops over the one eye that is slanted downward that one eye ball has a dead stare look sorta spooky unlike a lazy eye that moves.

Anyway, I think wearing a custom eye patch is the way to go I don't care to much for wearing my sunglasses in the stores people think I am trying to be cool but then again I could care less what they think anymore.

Thanks for asking stuka.

LoneSilver

stuka1939 said:
What happened to your eye? Did you get an orbital fracture?
 

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Lighten up aldaris, stuka is only trying to be helpful and I doubt he is gay but with your atittude it doesn't surprise me your nose has been broken multiple times you must really be a piece of work...

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aldaris said:
stuka is as gay as aids. a nose job? i need a f----- nose job to bang fat vd infested chicks in america in 2008? i need great teeth to get my meat muscle some work? the hors want a man. that is something they will never tell you. they want a man, not a gay stripper. they want a man. that is why height does matter. masculine traits matter. a good nose is anything but masculine. mine has been broken multiple times and the chicks dig it.

i am so glad that i was blessed with height and naturally massive shoulders.

i swear some of you need to invest in some tampons.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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