"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why Every Woman Wants A Dominant Man

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Hey guys,

Here's a recent entry to my blog at http://secredatingtips.blogspot.com addressing the importance of being a dominant figure in this dating game.

What's a dominant man? He's someone who is ambitious. Not a thinker, but a DOer. Dominant males are those that are comfortable in their own skin and confident with who they are. In most cases, these are people who score executive level positions; those with deeper-pockets; those with a higher chance with securing success in all facets of life.

Dominant men exude power, and you should by now, women are easily attracted to those with power. While most men aim for women with looks, women need a guy who is reliable, independent, and strong-minded. Women are looking for leaders.

In every women is a deeply rooted instinct that prompts them to gravitate towards such dominant males. They simply cannot suppress this inner urge. It’s part of their survival.

If you learn how to project the most subtle gestures, voice, or attitude of a dominant male, women will instantly be attracted to you subconsciously.

Some examples of dominant men are those you see in the face of media. Jay Z, P.Diddy, Kanye West all fall into the category of dominant men. Are they nice guys? They're far from that. Go on Youtube and study their personality and behavior. The way in which they speak or rap in their music all echo dominance.

There's never shakiness or hints of uneasiness in their voice, neither have they ever lost sight of their life direction. There's a reason why they're power-movers in their respective industry.

So, what are some dominant male traits that you should now acquire and affix in your arsenal?

1. Never be submissive.Never be weak. Never seek approval from others on how they should behave in a social situation.

2. Never shy away from conversations or meeting with new people

3. Never pay much mind to what others think of you. Take control of YOUR reality. Be your own authority.

4. When in a group of men and women, dominant males know that it’s “Them” who the girls want to sleep with. This will be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

5. Your life is what you make of it. The future is yours.

Guys, being a dominant male, is all about your attitude and projecting the image that you are fun to be with, that you are in control, and not a nice wimpish guy.

Here’s a great example of a non-dominant male. Peep the dialogue.

She says: So, what should we do tonight?
He says: I don’t know. Anything is good. Hm, What are you in the mood for?
She says: Not sure myself, you can pick.
He says: I still don’t know, argh.
She says: (frustrated) OK. I’ll plan. How about the movies?
He says: Ah, there’s nothing that catches my attention right now. How about stay in for the night?

A dominant male would have never be uncertain of what to do with women. They always have something planned. Something exciting. They will take a woman by hand the hand and lead her into a state of wonderment.

Hot Tip: The more you believe you are a dominant male, the more likely you’ll become one. Remember the power of belief is that incredible. Let it perpetuate. When women instinctively register your role as a dominant male, she will surrender to your presence, regardless of how high their heads are up in the air.

Soon, you’ll realize that the more dominant you become, the higher your mating advantages will be.

Don’t just be a man, BE the man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Excellent article. It's been said hundreds of times but still rings very true.
 
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