"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why Don't You have a title of: "Real Don Juan"

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After the "Master Don Juan" title, have "Real Don Juan" title, just to seperate the veterans. Just mentioning.

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Ooooooh........s h i t.

"There's a dream that lives, deep in evry hart.
Heroes call their name, legends leave their mark.
And it's worth the sweat, and it's worth the pain, cause the chance may never come again.
Give it all U got. Take ur best shot. The fire burns deep inside, stand before the giants.
Cause the game belongs to the swift and the strong. Though the flame burns bright, in an instant it's gone, cause it's the spirit of the game, and goes on and on.
Cause the chance may never come again."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nine Breaker

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That is not necessarily a good idea. There are many potential DJ's and relatively new guys around this site who generally post a ton of threads and replies about their own problems (repeatedly) and are always questioning themselves.

The number of posts you make here does not make you a Master DJ, or even a typical DJ in real life. How you perform in the field is what defines you as a Don Juan.

It's all well and good for you if you become a Master at the site. But what really counts is what you're doing in your love-life, and not how many posts you're making here. Remember that.

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The Human Body Is A Fragile Thing, But The Human Soul Can NEVER Be Truly Broken.
 

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That is what I mean man. When I reach that stupid milestone crap of MDJ, it feels like I cheated myself. I ask a lot of questions and I help alot of questions. I also play around in the 'Anything Else' forum. I will feel cheated when I reach Master Don Juan. Because I know I'm not. I'm still learning and it feels so retarded that I will be called a Master Don Juan. I know and hear what ur saying.

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Ooooooh........s h i t.

"There's a dream that lives, deep in evry hart.
Heroes call their name, legends leave their mark.
And it's worth the sweat, and it's worth the pain, cause the chance may never come again.
Give it all U got. Take ur best shot. The fire burns deep inside, stand before the giants.
Cause the game belongs to the swift and the strong. Though the flame burns bright, in an instant it's gone, cause it's the spirit of the game, and goes on and on.
Cause the chance may never come again."
 

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It would take a lot more work on the admin's parts, but maybe the impressive titles could go to those folks whose posts are honored in the DJBible or the Hall of Fame.
 

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Originally posted by Rebel Leader:
It would take a lot more work on the admin's parts, but maybe the impressive titles could go to those folks whose posts are honored in the DJBible or the Hall of Fame.
correct. good job rebel.



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Ooooooh........s h i t.

"There's a dream that lives, deep in evry hart.
Heroes call their name, legends leave their mark.
And it's worth the sweat, and it's worth the pain, cause the chance may never come again.
Give it all U got. Take ur best shot. The fire burns deep inside, stand before the giants.
Cause the game belongs to the swift and the strong. Though the flame burns bright, in an instant it's gone, cause it's the spirit of the game, and goes on and on.
Cause the chance may never come again."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Geez! Are you guys really that concerned about this? Who gives a flat rip what you have under your name? Do you really have that much of a need to rise to some level grandeur on an online discussion forum? Stop worrying about who's who on here go get laid! For the love of God!
 

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Originally posted by trickynick:
go get laid! For the love of God!
That should be our Don Juan quote. Who wants to have this as a staple of topic?

(Just kidding man.)



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Ooooooh........s h i t.

"There's a dream that lives, deep in evry hart.
Heroes call their name, legends leave their mark.
And it's worth the sweat, and it's worth the pain, cause the chance may never come again.
Give it all U got. Take ur best shot. The fire burns deep inside, stand before the giants.
Cause the game belongs to the swift and the strong. Though the flame burns bright, in an instant it's gone, cause it's the spirit of the game, and goes on and on.
Cause the chance may never come again."
 

Giovanni Casanova

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You know, the funny and interesting thing is that in this relatively pointless thread which is wholly unrelated to actually getting girls, Mark has elevated himself four threads closer to "Master DJ" status. Irony, anyone?

[Actually, Mark had already attained that status, post-wise... I was merely making a point]

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"Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement."
Jim Horning

"Always love thy enemies, just in case all your friends turn out to be a bunch of bastards."

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

[This message has been edited by Giovanni Casanova (edited 01-30-2002).]
 

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Forget the title, I want the respect. Just as other forums I've frequented (not anymore way to busy now)

They still remember me 1-2 years later.

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"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova:
You know, the funny and interesting thing is that in this relatively pointless thread which is wholly unrelated to actually getting girls, Mark has elevated himself four threads closer to "Master DJ" status. Irony, anyone?

[Actually, Mark had already attained that status, post-wise... I was merely making a point]
Good point, Nova! For all I give a rip we could change the Master Don Juan title to "Internet Grand-Chode-Master Dork" (as suggested by TurboLover) and the meaning would be more accurate in many cases.


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You either own the game or it owns you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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