Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why don't women just Submit to us like in the olden days?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women are simply less trusting these days.
And many women look at men as a walking wallet.
There are still a lot of things at stake for people.
Plus, the average person walks around in a cynical and scared Scarcity Mentality.

There are some women who will "submit" to a naturally masculine and dominant man.
If you are not that, then you may be expecting too much from a woman.
but when we put all this 'blame' and responsibiltiy on others for our OWN feelings and our OWN Happiness, then I can see where a lot of people go wrong and needlessly suffer.

Whenever you say something like this, you are in bad territory:

"But women SHOULD be this or SHOULD Do that, or SHOULD act this Way or SHOULD whatever..."


That's a bad place to be in .

Stop using the word 'should".

Stop living with the mindset that "people SHOULD..." or 'things SHOULD be this way..."
 
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