"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why don't they ever say anything?

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when you make show a girl your interest in her even if you've been knowing her for quite some time (but not too long) how come they never mention the fact that they already have a boyfriend (besides ofcourse trying not to hurt your feelings)? Also when you part with a girl and she leaves without saying "Goodbye" is that a good or a bad thing? Also what is that suppossed to mean?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Many girls like to play men and see how many they can attract to the point rigbt before kissing. It ups their self esteem, just as it would for a man. It's either that, or you're waiting too long to move in for the kill. More detail in your experience would help.
 
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usually when a woman shows no interest, "i have a boyfriend" crap comes out of their mouth quick in the conversation.

you are not worthy of a goodbye from her? then show her the same respect.
 
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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
usually when a woman shows no interest, "i have a boyfriend" crap comes out of their mouth quick in the conversation.

you are not worthy of a goodbye from her? then show her the same respect.
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that is true "i have a boyfriend" line is pretty much telling you that she is unavailable FOR YOU.

I once dated a girl that I thought was a potential for a relationship, then because I was an AFC (i didn't make any aggressive moves) all of a sudden she said "Oh i have a boyfriend of a year" - so basically she was testing the waters and seeing if she can move on to someone else so I messed up.. BUT then again, why would i want to be in-between relationship sloppy seconds, eh? I'm still friends with her, the chemistry is there but now I don't think of her as anything but a pivot/social proof.
 
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