In the past I kept asking myself this question. Why?
And now, some years later, I definitely can see the pattern.
I have more women than I know what to do with when I... can't have them.
I have success when women become a problem. Something that will interfere with a goal (or some goals) I am pursuing. When women troubles my life, that's when I got too much of them calling me and wanting to do "stuff".
On the other hand, when I was doing nothing but waiting for someone, I had zero success. I had too much time to give for a girl, yet, where was her? No, no girls. Nothing.
Having something going on for YOU gives all the confidence you need. After all, you have a plan and you are following it. You have a purpose, and because of that you attach value to yourself. Women of course sense it, but hey... they're trying to get precious time of you!! You can't just drop your plan to be with them. They perceive it, making you go even higher on their rating.
If you have no women and wonder why, maybe it's because you have too much time for them. It's when you do not that you find that they're willing to be with you for even a minute if that's all you have for her.
You can do whatever YOU want! The only thing you have to make sure is that what you're doing makes you accomplish something you want. Video games are not going to do the trick, as they're something that just kills time. And I doubt you'll prefer to play video games than to be with a woman.
An example: you commit to weight-lifting. You go Arnold and get a huge fraction of your day to lift weights, plan your meals, study new workouts, etc. Then, you get big and the girls like it. You have this aura of confidence, that you're doing what you wanted to. Plus, when they try to get with you, you do not want to mess with your workout schedule and will only schedule on your terms. It all comes together to your benefit.
It really can be anything... I said weights cause it is pretty common on the DJ board. But you can start to study heavy psychology and make an insane nerd schedule to learn it all!!
If you're not getting anything out of life, there is no way you're going to get girls. So, to have success with women and, most important, to be where you want to be, get busy now!!!
And now, some years later, I definitely can see the pattern.
I have more women than I know what to do with when I... can't have them.
I have success when women become a problem. Something that will interfere with a goal (or some goals) I am pursuing. When women troubles my life, that's when I got too much of them calling me and wanting to do "stuff".
On the other hand, when I was doing nothing but waiting for someone, I had zero success. I had too much time to give for a girl, yet, where was her? No, no girls. Nothing.
Having something going on for YOU gives all the confidence you need. After all, you have a plan and you are following it. You have a purpose, and because of that you attach value to yourself. Women of course sense it, but hey... they're trying to get precious time of you!! You can't just drop your plan to be with them. They perceive it, making you go even higher on their rating.
If you have no women and wonder why, maybe it's because you have too much time for them. It's when you do not that you find that they're willing to be with you for even a minute if that's all you have for her.
You can do whatever YOU want! The only thing you have to make sure is that what you're doing makes you accomplish something you want. Video games are not going to do the trick, as they're something that just kills time. And I doubt you'll prefer to play video games than to be with a woman.
An example: you commit to weight-lifting. You go Arnold and get a huge fraction of your day to lift weights, plan your meals, study new workouts, etc. Then, you get big and the girls like it. You have this aura of confidence, that you're doing what you wanted to. Plus, when they try to get with you, you do not want to mess with your workout schedule and will only schedule on your terms. It all comes together to your benefit.
It really can be anything... I said weights cause it is pretty common on the DJ board. But you can start to study heavy psychology and make an insane nerd schedule to learn it all!!
If you're not getting anything out of life, there is no way you're going to get girls. So, to have success with women and, most important, to be where you want to be, get busy now!!!
