"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why don't girls like my foot fetish :(

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol, I have one too.. you just can't gross a woman out with it. I mean, some ugys are out of control. I can appricate a girl with pretty feet, but I'm not at home jacking off to pictures of toes or anything.

I mean.. what if a woman had say.. a hand fetish and everytime she looked at you, the only thing she could see where your hands.. wouldn't that kinda throw you off?
 

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I love seeing girls in black strappy heels n short black dresses. I once dumped a great girl cause she had a warty toe :(
 

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the majority of people just don't like their own feet. they don't want them looked at too much, they don't want others to smell them, touch them or tickle them.
that is why most people wear shoes or socks all the time.
 

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There's nothing wrong with a foot fetish man. I find womens soles attractive myself, but toes are also attractive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think feet fetish is the 'now' thing. everyone has one.

if you don't want me to look at your feet, don't wear open toed shoes.
 

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Yeah, tell me about, girls walk around with those sexy open toed shoes and don't expect us to be attracted?
 

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barefoot, open toed, same thing. I LIKE FEET! "m going to look. I mean I don't star or, like the guy on that law and order eposide where he killed a woman to have her feet or anything but..cute feet are a good thing ot have
 

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i had a girl like that. 2 actually. Actually both had pretty cute feet too. One use to wear her socks inside out, even when we were going at it. it was kinda awkard
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Amante Silvestre said:
Ok. I'm starting to think I have a sock fetish here.

Am I the only one? :D
i think avril has one because not only does that chick wear knee high socks, but stockings under that.
 

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Amante Silvestre said:
Ok. I'm starting to think I have a sock fetish here.

Am I the only one? :D
I think naked girls in socks or socks and shoes is f*cking hot. I don't know why. Maybe it just accentuates their nakedness or something.
 

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I don't have any kind of a foot fetish or anything, but I like me some nice toes ;)

It goes the opposite for the hamma toes. NASTY.

Damn....this chick I was fukking a little while back was laying in my bed one night and took a picture of her foot. I didn't even realize it, but my buddy saw it when I was showing him some pics on my computer and says "WTF is THAT?????" I replied "Uh errrr....I dunno....I never noticed how bad her feet were!"

Next thing you know, she puts that very picture up as her Myspace pic. Yikes.
 

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i love cute feet, and toes especially when their toes are done right like the
french tip, thats a super turn-on 4me
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when I have seen the woman for time to time, it's usually fine. Keep it a cute, harmless fetish. Not an obsession. Women like my foot fetish because they get free foot massages. win for both partieis
 

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I don't like socks at all, I associate it with men's clothes like trousers and flat shoes. I prefer women to wear heels dresses. Stockings with heels or bare feet with red toenails and some strappy heels are good to see. Azz is my favorite bodypart though.
 
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