"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why don't ANY girls show interest in me?

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dude you look attractive as far as i can tell

however, you radiate one thing from your picture,and another from your post

from your picture: you are good looking but you care what the audience thinks.. STOP that, even on your worst day, it's surprising that some women are more interested than when you're dressed well - its a phenomenon

from your post: keep on being C&F, but tone down the C. Be more of the fun guy, be playful, and confident - compliment the girls, try direct openers, make sure you behave like an alpha - always relaxed and coming from this frame:

"I am the prize, and you might be, too" - that's f.ucking near KINGLY to feel like that

NOT

"I am the prize, so you can't be" - that's false confidence and insecurity

you'll get good enough at this soon

APPROACH the girls, too

what, you thought the more C&F you were, they'd just go "I MUST F.UCK YOU NOW!" on your way to the bathroom?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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your a good looking guy just make your self more approachable to women. Smile, think of happy thought when your sitting in class, it does make a difference in how people see you. Personally, when I feel moody I get approached by women but a lot less then when I look happy. Remember, if a girl thinks your hot shes already nerveous about talknig to you, so when you look like your pissed it makes her think twice about talking to you.
 
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Your a good looking guy.

The real issue here is that sh*tty webcam. Fix that and all your dreams will come true. Really.
 
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MAKE THE 1ST MOVE!!

jlr12584: u want a simple short solution to your problem?


Solution:

When u see that girl that u would like to come sit next to you, YOU GO UP TO HER, start talking, then invite her to come sit next to you in the next lesson/class etc... if they dont come up to you, then they might get the feeling that u are this stuck up/high strung guy, so YOU need to iniciate the 1st move, by approaching THEM, starting a convo with them, and "breaking the ice"... after that, they will feel more comfortable with you, and they WILL spk/approach u etc, cause if u are friendly and approach and talk to one girl, others will see, and this will also make them feel come confident in approiaching/speaking to you.

So get out there, and APPROACHTHEM! Befriendking alot of girls in your college etc is golden, it makes macking chicks all that easiyer.


Laterz... ;)
 
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I think a lot of men have this problem. When we are younger and are attractive it can be off-setting to women. They say that hot women also tend to have the lowest self-esteem, and this may be true for men.

We think that if a woman doesnt show interest there must be something wrong with us, that maybe we are thinking to highly of ourselves. Maybe they are intimidated.

Sure, girls may think you are hot and they may even approach those guys. Also, they may think you are hot but think "theres no way he'd talk to me," im just going to ignore him.

I know in the past I've ignored the hottest girl at a party because I thought i would have a lot of competition. I've gone after the mildly attractive one just cause i thought I had a better shot.

For myself, I feel I am attractive, however, when I am out, sometimes its hard getting attention I feel I should get.
When it rains, it pours, so when things are going well, they are going really well.

I think if you are an attractive guy and you approach a woman, her first thought, is that maybe you are a player. That, if someone, good looking is talking to them with confidence, that he must be after everyone and thinks he can get with me. While, it may be the case that we could get with them, doesnt mean, they will neccessarily get with us.


I've tried to knock down girls on pedestools by ignoring them, or acting like they arent all that good. I'm sure girls do the same thing to guys who are good looking.

I kind of have a rough exterior, mixed with a small does of insecurities depending on the situation.

I used to be a real softy, but have roughed up my exterior. Meaning, I dont smile as much as I should. When I say whats up to people, i just give pound, handshake, whatever, and say whats up and tahts it.

I'm sure this comes off as intimidating.
My point is, is that girls, and even the really hot ones are even more worried about competition from women. They are used to be the prettiest and feel that they have to be that way everywhere they go, therefore if they dotn get attention they get self-concious. Just liek we are doing.

If you think you have it together, lighten up. I know i take things too seriously. And I feel like I want to get from 0-60 asap. I'm not talking sex on the first night, but i want to know right away where I stand.l This isnt good. I feel like I need to know if I'm on the right course, or should find someone else.

Also being that I feel that attractive, i figure if a girl im talking to is interested she will bring up other stuff, hanging out later, etc.
I will bring it up occassionally, if I really dig them. However, I sometimes dont bring up more intimate issues right away like i could/should, because I dont like rejection on that basis. I feel kind of slimly if i mention something physical to soon, such as the first night of meeting them.

Anyway, be confident, dont take it personally, lighten up, dont be afarid to be a bit more aggressive, and it should work out.
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
yea they probably show indirect interest signs instead of obvious signs...
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Such as what? What subtle signs of interest would they show in a college classroom?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Enigma412
Such as what? What subtle signs of interest would they show in a college classroom?
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Aloofness

Scought - I believe attractive people were/are conditioned this way. in that everywehre they go, most people look at them, i mean who wouldnt want to look at something attractive right?

This is probably what makes them self conscious and more aware of certain things. Which gives them insecurities
 
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