Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why doesn't she stay over

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Malice said:
In my AFC'est days (about 10 years ago) I had a girl in my bed who said exactly that "i'm not that kind of girl" after we were making out in my bed. I believed her and just went to sleep.
What a horrid memory I need a drink.
That kind of sh*t is intolerable, and her ass woulda been out the house quickly. I don't tolerate female bullshyt and neither should you or any man who respects himself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Married Buried

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nismo-4 said:
That kind of sh*t is intolerable, and her ass woulda been out the house quickly. I don't tolerate female bullshyt and neither should you or any man who respects himself.
It was my fault actually. All I had to do is sweet talk her but I gave up immediately and went to sleep. A little game and I would have been stuffing that turkey as they say.

I THINK she would have given it up, who the hell knows?
 

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nismo-4 said:
Your princess is in another castle. When a bytch leaves you, don't try to figure it out. Move on.

Case closed.
eh..I'd probably still let the HB10 come over and have sex with me.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. As mentioned in a previous thread I had an afternoon nap after a heavy night, and ended up over sleeping and missing a dinner date. Think I had a case of oneitis, but have come back stronger than ever. Added another 3 plates to the collection over xmas, even managing to take one home on nye after meeting her that night.
 

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SilverToungue said:
So had my favorite plate over last night. She is a HB10 for her age, and we get on so well I can't see me falling for any other plates. I cooked mussels, had a real fire, candles lights and we had a great night. by at midnight she tells me she yrs going home, and I mean driving after sharing 3 bottles off wine.

We have had sex and slept together many times and even if she was friend zoning me I would still expect her to sleep over rather than drink drive.

Have I swallowed the blue pill?
I hate to say this but I can smell the "neediness" oozing from your post. I can only imagine how you act to her in person. This explains a bulk of issues you are encountering now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Puzzle solved chaps. she came over last night and asked me about my other girls. told her I met someone nye that I quite like, and another girl I met when I overlaid for a date with her, and she hits me with she is getting married in 3 weeks to a fat, ugly, old millionaire. But our nights don't have to stop. lol
 

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SilverToungue said:
Puzzle solved chaps. she came over last night and asked me about my other girls. told her I met someone nye that I quite like, and another girl I met when I overlaid for a date with her, and she hits me with she is getting married in 3 weeks to a fat, ugly, old millionaire. But our nights don't have to stop. lol
So I was right then. She was leaving you to go see another man.
 
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