"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why doesn't she stay over

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Malice said:
In my AFC'est days (about 10 years ago) I had a girl in my bed who said exactly that "i'm not that kind of girl" after we were making out in my bed. I believed her and just went to sleep.
What a horrid memory I need a drink.
That kind of sh*t is intolerable, and her ass woulda been out the house quickly. I don't tolerate female bullshyt and neither should you or any man who respects himself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Married Buried

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nismo-4 said:
That kind of sh*t is intolerable, and her ass woulda been out the house quickly. I don't tolerate female bullshyt and neither should you or any man who respects himself.
It was my fault actually. All I had to do is sweet talk her but I gave up immediately and went to sleep. A little game and I would have been stuffing that turkey as they say.

I THINK she would have given it up, who the hell knows?
 

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nismo-4 said:
Your princess is in another castle. When a bytch leaves you, don't try to figure it out. Move on.

Case closed.
eh..I'd probably still let the HB10 come over and have sex with me.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. As mentioned in a previous thread I had an afternoon nap after a heavy night, and ended up over sleeping and missing a dinner date. Think I had a case of oneitis, but have come back stronger than ever. Added another 3 plates to the collection over xmas, even managing to take one home on nye after meeting her that night.
 

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SilverToungue said:
So had my favorite plate over last night. She is a HB10 for her age, and we get on so well I can't see me falling for any other plates. I cooked mussels, had a real fire, candles lights and we had a great night. by at midnight she tells me she yrs going home, and I mean driving after sharing 3 bottles off wine.

We have had sex and slept together many times and even if she was friend zoning me I would still expect her to sleep over rather than drink drive.

Have I swallowed the blue pill?
I hate to say this but I can smell the "neediness" oozing from your post. I can only imagine how you act to her in person. This explains a bulk of issues you are encountering now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Puzzle solved chaps. she came over last night and asked me about my other girls. told her I met someone nye that I quite like, and another girl I met when I overlaid for a date with her, and she hits me with she is getting married in 3 weeks to a fat, ugly, old millionaire. But our nights don't have to stop. lol
 

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SilverToungue said:
Puzzle solved chaps. she came over last night and asked me about my other girls. told her I met someone nye that I quite like, and another girl I met when I overlaid for a date with her, and she hits me with she is getting married in 3 weeks to a fat, ugly, old millionaire. But our nights don't have to stop. lol
So I was right then. She was leaving you to go see another man.
 
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