"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why Doesn't Anyone Read The DJ Bible?

aura

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It's completely free and answers at least 90% of any newbie's questions.

Instead, people come here with specific questions which can almost always be answered without asking just reading.

Is it sheer laziness? Should the DJ Bible be featured more prominently? I don't get it; anyone can vastly upgrade their game with less than an hour of reading per week and by following the dj bootcamp.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aura said:
It's completely free and answers at least 90% of any newbie's questions.

Instead, people come here with specific questions which can almost always be answered without asking just reading.

Is it sheer laziness? Should the DJ Bible be featured more prominently? I don't get it; anyone can vastly upgrade their game with less than an hour of reading per week and by following the dj bootcamp.
It needs to be a sticky in General Discussion that has the Bible, a DJ Bootcamp, key discussions such as anything by Pook or Rollo and has the title "Please Read Before Posting." I agree it would cut down on lots of things around here.

Hell when I first came here I found these two threads which made me begin to post to this forum instead of lurking for the first 4 months or so I came here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147264
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147265
 

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It's kind of like diet pills or any get-rich-quick scheme. People want answers right NOW. They don't care about the details, or researching into the bible that could already answer %95 of their questions already. So we will always see the same questions posted, and we will continue to answer them the same way.

Another problem is, a lot of guys come in here thinking their situation is "unique" or requires special attention, when in all actuality it's really not. It's same thing every other guy has gone through on this forum before just rephrased differently. If people actually took time to read the DJ bible they would know that.

-Scars
 

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I am different and special, and my situations are unique and cannot be answered by something that has already been written

the above isn't reality. its how many people feel.

not here so much, but I've noticed many people posting questions specific to their own lives then arguing with all the advice in under to maintain the validity of their egos

for men not having success with women one of the early steps is to humble yourself, put your ego aside, and truly admit that you don't know what you are doing and that your past actions have been largely incorrect

also I've found that many people don't like to read, are unwilling to read, and don't have the attention span to read and absorb the material
 

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The DJ Bible is far from a be all, end all.

I've actually read through it a couple of times over the years.

It just seems like too much info with not enough focus.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maxtro said:
The DJ Bible is far from a be all, end all.

I've actually read through it a couple of times over the years.

It just seems like too much info with not enough focus.
The DJ Bible isn't some manual on 'How to lead your life to pull pu$$y'. All the info there is just merely guides for those in need to get back on the right track. Nobody said you have to memorize all the info to the dot, pick what you feel works for you, leave behind what doesn't. It's that simple.

On topic: I think many new posters come here because they want to get a girl problem solved asap. Not to sound arrogant but I believe majority of these posters are more interested in a 'quick fix' and not really interested in being a DJ. They are content taking what life throws at them so I think that accounts for the ignorance in the vast amount of generic questions asked.
 

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it would be motivating more people to read it if there was a big button in the beginning of the page that say download this before doing anything else on this forum or if the download link was send with the confirmation email when someone opens new account

btw. i am guilty for this as well so here is a link to it

KillaPeteHog-DJBible.pdf
 
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