"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why does this work for me?

cNfny

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i started using this little what i call "strange commitment" technique and it immediately about 8/10 times makes a girl warm up to you quick allowing anythin else to run smoothly.

here's what i do upon meeting a new girl or one i don't see on a regular bases.

me - so, are you single?
her - yes i am
me - well, you're my gf now. congrats!
her - oh really? haha
me - yes, now where's my kiss? you're a bad gf (whatever her name is)

i swear about 80% of girls i use this on laugh and blush and you can instantly see them turn meek. i have yet to actually get a girl to kiss me after that but who knows one day? ha

but im just curious as to why this works, any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, I like it.

It works because its charming and light hearted.
 

Poonani Maker

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Yeah, some of my most powerful attachments have come from these type of encounters. The flirting usually goes on and on for weeks after using this technique. Also use "when we get married..." and then she might say, "well, what IF we got married...?" then you know she's either seducing you, interested in you, or both. If find that the best women are the ones that'll banter or make-believe with you like this. Harmless.
 
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