"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why does this site advocate spinning plates instead of relationships

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SirFratserlot said:
Well, people are trying to convince us to play the women game by spinning plates. I'm sorry, but women will always have the upper-hand in polygamous/no string attached relationships. We are trying to out play them in a game they already have an advantage over. This is not a good strategy whatsoever.
Don't be so dramatic. It's not a game spinning plates, its more keeping her in check. She wants to see how desperate you are in keeping her, and to have other girls around is way one to show you are not desperate. Granted some guys can keep girls in check without spinning plates, but girls can sense if other girls want you or not.

Girls base their decisions on wants, not needs.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LiveFreeX said:
Because this is an American forum run by anti-family American reactionists, most of whom are narcissistic arseholes.

Plate spinning for what? That just makes you a slvt... but PUAs will look for the research that supports it whenever someone tries to make a counter point. Live by example and others will follow. If you live as a slvt, you will attract them. Thoughts become things, yes... thoughts also attract things.
you do realize that the only reason that you shouldn't spin plates would be if you were a millionaire, 10/10 in looks, funny enough to make jimmy kimmel look like Carlos mencia, smarter than neil degrass tyson(the black astrophysicist), built like brad pitt in fight club or gerard butler in 300, tall like shaq, whatever nationality isn't the most common but isn't discriminated against(you want to be exotic but you don't want to be like the koreans in japan) and if your tolerance for BS was high and your standard for a quality woman was very low

in that case you don't need to spin plates because you can get any woman who exists in the world(because you're perfect) and because your standards are so low and tolerance so high you'll like each and every one of them

how well does any of that describe you? not at all? then get back to spinning.
 

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devilkingx2 said:
you do realize that the only reason that you shouldn't spin plates would be if you were a millionaire, 10/10 in looks, funny enough to make jimmy kimmel look like Carlos mencia, smarter than neil degrass...
I'm not sure what that has to do with anything at all, but it did make me think. And the only reason I'd ever stop spinning plates is if there was one woman I was banging who was essentially perfect and I didn't want to run even the slightest risk of losing her due to her finding out (ironically if I stopped spinning, I'd probably run a larger risk of losing her, but that's another topic....)

So yeah, if the GIRL was 10/10 in looks, a millionairess, gave great bl*wjobs, was super sweet, super intelligent and fun, and from a high-class enough family that my family could stand her.... etc etc etc. Then yeah that might be the one time I stopped spinning plates.
 
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