"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why does this keep happenin??

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Yo waddup guys,

Havent posted in a while n thers somthin im stugglin with....its pisssin me off!!

The thing is i can number close, kiss close, hookup at parties, have fun witha girl wen im with her easily...its just the next part that pisses me off after u get the number.

For some reason she doesnt engage... n i end up losing her...wat shud i say, how do i setup a date, shud i call her, txt her, or fb?

Some places around me: hookah cafe, movies, etc.

Need help with this part of ma game guys... appreciate it
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jeffthechef

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you get her number

some advise you to not wait and call right away because they believe the woman will lose interest

some advise waiting a day..some 2 days..and so on

of course, you should be keeping busy and ****...but we're in fukin high school and have **** responsibility in actuality except whatever we put on ourselves...so anyways...i woudl suggest 2-4 days depending on how you feel..

dont text..takes forever when you're trying to set up **** and it's impersonal...
fb is the worst...it's as though you're trying to publicize it...you want to be smooth and low-key about your love life...and again, fb is impersonal

SO CALL..dont have a ****ing conversation cause you got to save your good ****...say hi...see how she's doing..DONT GET DEEP..just respond...and then suggest what you guys might do..don't ask...giving options is fine..but she must follow one of your choices...i was deep into the dj bible a couple weeks ago...and there's this two month rule..

BTW, sometimes i feel as though only a few people on this site actually read the dj bible...

continuing on...the two month thing is to see if she's worthy and willing to follow your lead...she;'ll prolly choose one of the options you suggest...then you say your goodbyes

that ****ing simple...

1. Hey
2. how are you doing
3. I feel like doing either this or this...this weekend..which do you like better...
4. Ok what time shoudl we go do (whatever you suggested in #3)..
5. Great! I'm sure we'll have a fun time. Bye


Keep it brief...never ask, always suggest/subtly demand

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Watch Hitch before?

once you have her number, you know she's at least a little interested...early on, i had problems number closing..once i got the numbers it was all easy..

What is there to fear?
 
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guys i need advice quick! i jus chopped this sexi-as s bloande russian girl tonight!!
 
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