"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why does this happen?

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someperson12

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Hi,
I'm curious on why this would happen for seemingly no reason.
I met this girl in class a couple months ago and we got along pretty well. She's a nice funny and everything as well as lets me get away with alot thing

For no apparent reason though, the second semester starts and shes ice cold. Now, our conversations last about two words or so (hi, well...yah) and even saying "hi"....its seems more out of politeness than out of joy.
It's like we hardly know each other (you have more to talk to with your teachers even). Not that i wanna go after her (i'm too busy anyways.
But im curious could she like me or what. I'm pretty sure i didn't do anything i shouldnt have.
She just shy all of a sudden or what could happen?

She also has other guy friends tho..............and she's still the sagm way all along.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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whats she like to the other guys? if shes the same, its nothing to do with you. Either way, just leave her alone for a while. shell warm up to you or she wont. you cant control it.
 
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well not really, she only that way to me for some reason. I have no clue why.
 
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